My (23f) ex (21m) boyfriend has been messaging me constantly trying to “work things out.” He is fed up with me not being over it and think I should be since it was months ago. We were together for a year until I found out he had been cheating on me. He was with a girl for a few months while we were together. Even though he’s been caught he won’t tell me the girls exact name or who she is or too much about their relationship. He’s protective over it. He told me her first name and that they went to school together. I found her Facebook because of how her name is spelled and the school. He protects her and tries to act like he knew her before me since they went to school together. He went to school with her but never spoke to her and added her Snapchat this year. He refuses to tell me who she is because she is “going through a lot” and it’s none of my business to know. She gave him a std and he refuses to contact her to let her know because he assumes she knows she has it. Not to be a stalker but I saw her posts and she talks about being damaged in a relationship and being hurt by men frequently. She does identify herself as single. It’s been months since the break up and he’s constantly randomly messaging me trying to get back together. He says he hates talking to me because every time I talk to him I bring up his cheating but I’m not over it. Would it be a good idea to work things out with him?
My ex is protective over the girl he cheated on me with?
