Guys, if a girl has a great personality but is overweight - but is working to get into shape - would you reject her on her looks?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Updates

+1 y

Interesting 2 guys said yes. I said am working on losing weight. So you're too shallow to contribute to anyone's life anyway.

Most people guess my weight as being 40 to 50lbs less because I also have muscle which is denser than fat

[Jamie05rhs]

First of all, weight does not equal "looks." Yes, they're somewhat related. (Because fat is often deposited on the neck and the cheeks just as much as it is on the belly.) But they're not the same.

Second of all, no; I would not reject a woman for being overweight. ESPECIALLY if she was working on getting in shape!

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Avicenna]

No way, I’ll ask her out before some other guy dies. A great personality is gold.

[TheUniqueOne96]

If she was still attractive and all or at least I thought she would be after the weight loss, then yeah.

I always respect it when someone is trying to improve themselves.

[es20490446e]

Not working, but there.

Everyone is working, but I want to see consistency long term.

On weight or anything else. Otherwise they won't feel comfortable around me themselves, as I'm uber-consistent.

[crossdressingrihno]

Depends. I’d need some form physically attraction to be their but if she’s working on it then fine with her being at an unhealthy size for a bit.

[bamesjond0069]

"but is working to get into shape" most people in this position fail or go right back to it, so I'd assume they won't improve further than what I can currently observe.

[Asker]

But then you're a weakling. I only gained weight due to an injury, bitch

[bamesjond0069]

And many people who do that never lose it. Clearly even in perfect shape, many men wouldn't be interested in you due to poor personality so maybe work on that too.

[Hardworkingguy]

I used to wait around 110 kg and then I started doing exercise and weight lifting and went down to 84. So I would definitely go out with the chubby girl who is doing her effort to improve herself

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Nope, I love bigger girls too

[Summeroflove]

No probably not

[Jmmmfi4]

Definitely not