What would be the qualities in your dream spouse?

[RaeLynnShirley]

How would you describe your prefect dream husband/wife?

[MendaciousMarxist]

I don't have that many standards but

• Doesn't smoke or drink (some weed is acceptable)
• is supportive in the relationship
• loyal
• has to be attractive (at least a 8/10 and is 6'3 or taller, 6'0 is the bare minimum)
• needs to be financially independent; make at least 120,000 annually and owns his own home (Bonus if they own their own bussiness)
• Must not be an engineer or work in the financial sector
• he is full of knowledge and I can have an intelligent conversation with him.
• He must not want kids but will be willing to provide for mine
• in addition, NO SINGLE FATHERS
• Monogamous, non negotiable
• Must be straight and sexually attracted to me ofc
• Around my Age or older, not gonna date toddlers, sorry!
• can't be religious either, especially not christ*n
• Is Not Overly Physically Intimate with me, if he wants to show me love, he better buy me a gift and no cuddling!
• body count of at least 5, I don't want a male prude lmao
• similar political views and values
• Healthful, at least a six pack
• Good hygiene. That’s a given.
• Courage, must defend and protect me
• Able to express themselves and isn't emotional, will break up with a man if he cries once. ain't dealing with that crap
• Must be at least 6 months out of any previous relationships and doesn't talk about their ex.

[Izzy_3991]

Oh, great question! 😃


1. Religious (Preferably a former Jew or Messianic Jew)
2. Good-looking (not male model good-looking but good-looking to me).
3. Funny (has to be a little weird but funny)
4. Kind (knows when to say sorry)
5. Caring (as I am caring and kind too)
6. Doesn’t want children.
7. Doesn't view porn (I am anti-porn).
8. Understanding (I have OCD and that can be a bit much for some people)
9. Is okay with me being bubbly and a little odd 😂
10. Is happy to lead me and follow his man duty (I will support him in his man roles as a good wife should).
11. Non-smoker
12. Doesn't take himself too seriously and has a good laugh


... I think there are more but that's off the top of my head 😄

[Likes2drive]

Sounds like me except for the Jewish part

[KrakenAttackin]

12+ items on your list, good luck with that.

[Izzy_3991]

Haha! I like to think there are still good people out in the world. These are good qualities of a person. And I am sure men would like to feel manly while in a relationship 💁🏼‍♀️

[RaeLynnShirley]

I agree with most of that except the no kids thing, I want lots of kids lol

[Izzy_3991]

I think I would be a great mother. My ovaries do little flips when I see babies 😂
However, I don't want to hand down my baggage or bad genetics, you know? I don't want to see my children suffer.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah I’m not looking to have kids because I did that long ago

[7Roses]

I have to be attracted to them.

Good and patient communicator.

They have to care about self improvement and living life in a soulfully fulfilling way.

we have to have a certain amount of things in common already and also a willingness to be open minded about things I am interested in and she isn't.

Is ok with how I do not want kids right now and potentially will never want them.

Trusting and loyal.

they inspire me to be a better person and we both have to nurture eachother and make each other better and happier people

im sure im forgetting something

[7Roses]

Also I expect all of these qualities from myself

[DaySpring]

• Courteous
• Decisive
• Romantic
• Affectionate
• Flattering
• Playful
• Open minded
• Culture-less
• Polite Mannerisms
• Kindness
• Enthusiastic
• Elated
• Joyful
• Sincere
• Discipline
• Tolerate
• Control of Tone of Voice
• Not egocentric
• Adoring
• Faithful
• Values Love and Romance above all else
• Someone who believes that all have the right to live how they desire
  as long as they don't harm anyone else.

[jennifer_bloom]

Kind, humble, happy, sweet, caring, honest, loyal, friendly, loyal, funny, innocent, cute.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I guess as long as I'm attracted to them, that's as much for the physical. Personality wise, it would be nice if the guy was affectionate and not toxic in any ways. Sharing values and being able to communicate also is important.

[exitseven]

Somebody who shares a lot of my interests and has a similar background. She must he in good shape and has an interest in fitness. She is educated and has her own career. She believes in marriage and is pro America. It would be good if she had talents that were different than my own so together we would be better than our individual parts.

[Tina19]

Great in bed
Handsome
Adventurous
Brave
Not possessive and controlling

[Anonymous]

If they were nurturing, in good shape and uninhibited

[Izzy_3991]

Uninhibited? Like an island?
Sounds like a quest is within your future there good sir 😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Izzy_3991 uninhibited not uninhabited lol

[Izzy_3991]

Lol. My eyes did the reading before my mind put it together 😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Izzy_3991 maybe if we were on an inhabited island together would be OK

[Opinion Owner]

Uninhabited

[Izzy_3991]

Haha! True 😂

[Anonymous]

Honest, loyal, kind, virgin, oral fixation, wants kids, doesn't want pets, doesn't want anal sex.

[KrakenAttackin]

Let the delusions roll...

[MendaciousMarxist]

No such thing, people are allowed to have standards lol

[Anonymous]

Asian.

[7Roses]

thats it?

[Opinion Owner]

@7Roses
After being married I don't trust anyone at all. I might as well just date ones I'm attracted to (Asian women). If she stays, she stays, if she screws me over, whatever.

[Anonymous]

I don't know.