Has cooking, cleaning and great sex become just bare minimum in a woman for commitment?

[ChicanaChick]

Well I'm single but I've seen several women provide those 3 things in a relationship and find themselves in the ''forever, childless girlfriend'' zone and childless. He ain't never opening his gate for her. LOL

Obviously to keep them at that zone means he doesn't fully trust her and has likely analyzed the situation. He isn't one bit impressed at all. Some men already know how to cook and clean themselves (my brother knows that too and nope that's NOT what made him turn her into his fiance; it was a lot more than those 3 things) so it's going to take a lot more than that.

Personally I find it laughable when a woman claims she does all that and is waiting for her long-term boyfriend she's living together for 5+ to propose. Has those 3 things become just the bare minimum in a woman?

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My brother was actually hard to get impressed. Just cooking, cleaning and great sex would NOT have been enough for him to propose.

[Guy13]

As a guy, I do not see the problem in it. The problem is with their Choices in men and relationships. Very few men will marry SO cause one discovers all their idiosyncrasies that one would have to deal with when married. And sometimes it the woman with the Nahhhh keep that 💍

[ChicanaChick]

Yes fewer men will marry and if they propose it better be good. Like I've said on my update, my brother is actually not really impressed at all if a woman can cook, clean and gives great sex. He can already bake, cook and clean (do way more recipes than me, lol) so a woman just doing that wouldn't have been enough for him to propose.
We all like his fiance so yeah if he was impressed enough to propose it means it's good.

[ChicanaChick]

I believe men are actually raising their standard if they want a woman for marriage.

[Guy13]

I hope things go very well for your brother. Traditional marriage with a thoughtful process and a loyal commitment to both the institution and person is still the best way to live out relationship and Family.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I've met maybe a couple of chicks who match me on cleaning, I cook better than all of them, and the great sex can turn into a mundane set of preferences pretty fast... like I'm only allowed to fuck once a day, or they demand certain positions or I'm only allowed to go in so far... they make dildos bigger than me, which makes no sense.

There's other shit though... I prefer a woman to make her own money and stay out of my pocket. She can make more than me, but I don't want gifts and I don't want to give her any. Everybody has their own set of likes and dislikes. I think that's why most relationshits end around the 3 month mark and other's might drag out for a couple of years. The really long ones only seem to last because you both serve great purpose for oneanother. That's just my take on it.

[LazerBean]

Women like that are easy to take advantage of, and people who are easy to take advantage of WILL get taken advantage of.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

YOU ASK: Has cooking, cleaning and great sex become just bare minimum in a woman for commitment?

IN UPDATES YOU WROTE:
My brother was actually hard to get impressed. Just cooking, cleaning and great sex would NOT have been enough for him to propose.

MY ANSWER: Do You Like Incest? It’s seems that way!

[ChicanaChick]

No I don't like incest. I just know my brother's personality and all this is base on what he told me twice when he was single. He used to complain about not finding a quality woman and not just cooking and cleaning isn't enough for him to consider marriage since he already knows how to do that. We were raised that cooking and cleaning isn't a gender related task but a person learning important skils to survive.

[ChicanaChick]

My brother even pointed it out that if he wanted a woman that just cooks and cleans then he could've easily get a maid. Nowdays I also see several women that are stuck as a girlfriend for years and years and they never get proposed to even if she cooks and cleans so therefore things have changed.

[inhua]

being decent looking and showing a little of bit attention is the bare minimum for a lot of men these days. the standards men have for women are really low to the point they'll accept anything from emasculation to abuse, worst of all is when they insist other men have these same standards otherwise it's oppressive or misogynistic.

[Anonymous]

No, sex has obviously become the bare minimum for women. Certainly not cooking, given that most women today have no idea how to cook. I've never met one my age who could cook. Are there actually still women who can cook? Give me some hope here.

[Berethor]

What else a man needs from a woman? yea for her to not be a ho, hos are not wife material.

[SarahS98]

There are always exceptions though. Long ago before I was even born, mom cheated on dad with his friend when they were boyfriend and girlfriend. They worked it out and got married later on. She never cheated again (never cheated on the marriage either) and been a great mother and wife since.

Why is it that a man can have a sleeping around past or even cheat on his girlfriend once and we can't be worried about if he'll cheat later on in the marriage but not a woman?

[Berethor]

Because woman's cheating is worse, mama's baby, papa's maybe trope, you can google it.

[SarahS98]

Good point on the baby part. She can get pregnant from other man. Dad started trusting her again after he did a paternity test on me (after I was born) twice and twice it came back positive. Yeah she hasn't cheated since. She did changed for the better.

[Anonymous]

If that were the case, then 95% of today's women would be updateable because the vast majority of them can't actually cook, and many will not clean because they find it "demeaning". Sex is their only redeeming value.

[Alex8736]

if thats the bare minimum then your looking in all the wrong places. ppls actions speak louder than words 🍸

[nawtee_me]

I just need two things from a woman, the good sex part and for her to work and put in as much as I do towards the household bills...

[KrakenAttackin]

I don't think modern women have the slightest idea of what being a wife means.

[ChicanaChick]

Loyalty, trust, someone that supports you and have your back. Someone that actually contributes and doesn't just do basic survival skills.

[KrakenAttackin]

@ChicanaChick. It's one thing to spout off a checklist and entirely another to actually BE this person.

[ChicanaChick]

Yes it is. My brother was actually a very hard person to impress. His fiance fits that category. She never says what she is, she does it and is that person.

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Well, has it? Asking you cause you're a lady :)

[ChicanaChick]

Honestly, I think cooking and cleaning can now be considered as basic survival skills for a person. It's no longer just our job so it's not impressing.

[ChicanaChick]

It's no longer just a woman's job.