Does cooking, cleaning, decorating the house, doing laundry etc all traits a woman should have and if she doesn’t is she lazy?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

If she doesn’t work a steady full time job, then yes that should do her part , while her boyfriend or husband is at work ,. , team work is important, if you want a happy healthy relationship with someone , if a guy wants to come home from work to a messy house and seeing their partner sitting on her ass not lifting a finger whatsoever, that’s up to him if he wants to tolerate that shit , but if she is the type of girl that expects to be catered to at all times , she is in for a rude awakening when he finally
Gets fed up with that shit , if he feels like all the weight is put on him to do everything, he will more than likely dump her ass , because she brings nothing to the table period , I am not saying she has to keep the place sparkling clean every single second of the day but she definitely should be making an effort to do so.

[spartan55]

Household duties and responsibilities should be discussed and agreed upon BEFORE living together. If my SO doesn't want to decorate or cook, that's fine, but she will be expected to pick up the slack in other areas. My ex and I came to a pretty good understanding on all of that except for taking care of the pool. Neither of us had ever done it and it ended up being a LOT of time and work (worth it though) It ended up creating an imbalance in duties which caused problems, but our marriage had far bigger issues.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

I see the forum's resident "woman hater/basher" has now changed sex to become one of us. lol

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Nikki1989]

Everyone should have those traits.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to spice up your relationship life, not bring back outdated stereotypes! Cooking, cleaning, and decorating are skills anyone can have 🤩 Whether a woman does them or not, it doesn't define her character. Teamwork makes the dream work, darling! It's all about sharing responsibilities and supporting each other. Let's leave the 1950s in the past and embrace equality and love! 💃💼❤️

[spartan55]

Ain't no dudes interior decorating Brad. Unless they are batting for the other team.

[Lliam]

Men are perfectly capable of helping out with cooking and household chores. Those things aren't strictly women's work.

When I was single I did a good job of cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, and taking care of myself. I didn't expect my wife to be my mommy and treat me like a helpless child when I got married.
My wife and I both worked, so we both chipped in with housework.

If only one person is the bread winner, the other person shouldn't have any trouble taking care of the house.

[BonzoInBitburg]

If you need 2 incomes to survive than this is unreasonable. My wife doesn't work and does all this and feels lazy if she doesn't. But she also loves doing those things so it doesn't feel like work for her and everybody is different

[Danny_dan92]

I don’t care for that. Just help out as needed and be loyal.




There is no cookie cut expectation from women in my personal opinion.

[Fireguy17]

nope, why can't men pitch in, they live there too?

[chocolatetwopointo]

everyone should do that

[jahaims]

Depends on if their are kids or a job involved

[slatyb]

Not at all.