Why do some female cheaters want a weak man, a simp?

[Tulipsxoxo]

Believe it or not, there are some men out there that will take back a cheating girlfriend or wife. They are weak men for sure aka simps or fools.

Now I'm switching the question. Why do those female cheaters stay with those simps, why do they still want those weak men?

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Why don't they stay with the man they cheated with? Why do they begged to be forgiven and when those simps take them back, they stay with those weak men. Why? What do they get out of staying with those simps?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Easier to manipulate and to include your update... they pick the guy they want to manipulate usually for a reason. Like these chicks can get dicked down by some alpha male monster cocks, but monster alpha cock isn't going to try and settle. You won't find him being a S. I. M. P. (Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pussy), but you will find Mr. Beta Bux, the guy that works his ass off to buy things, willing to.

So when you have a chick that wants her cake and to eat it too... that wants both the financial gain and the monster alpha cock... she'll string one guy along and get her guts poked by another guy.

That beta dude will provide her with what the Alpha guy would never give her (in fact expects her to provide it). Vice versa as well... Captain midget dick isn't impressing anyone with his pussy licking skills.

[Vesuvius87]

Well explained. That's the best explanation towards the OP's question. Do you believe this could be a real life example right here? There is a user here with the name of Sarah.
So the ideal, perfect family doesn't exist at all? ↗
The guy in the story is actually Sarah's father. The woman cheated with his best friend but somehow he still married her years later. Sarah and her sisters are the product of the cheater and that man.

[Vesuvius87]

I've analyzed that story and I doubt there is any love in that marriage. The woman supposedly cheated 30 years ago (long ago) but I wonder if the poor man must still be having flashbacks of his friend and her fucking since he literally saw the cheating in his house?

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Vesuvius87 Holy shit I read that story you linked. Yeah, that's the shit I was talking about. It's so fucked up that I don't think any of us are comfortable in knowing it's real, all around us, and has been going on for hundreds of thousands of years.

I break it down like this... why do some people get so mad and pissed off at the MGTOW types when it's not going to affect them? Unless... they planned on pulling the shit that some MGTOW stuff guards against. Female Dating Strategy (FDS) is like so fucked up to read (It's on Reddit) where like the only point is to use and extract from men. At least that MGTOW stuff is just to avoid that kind of shit. Both groups act really sexist at times, but the FDS is like... literally every stereotype you could come up with.

Back to this girl's story that you've shared... looking at the father, that's not a man that's going to tell the truth of everything to his kids. He's wrapped up in everything and a part of the problem. It's a sad, very sad truth, that he will never share and she (the mother) will never admit to. Most of us get raised by these types of people... it's just fucking sad to age and realize all that. Like, I start to wonder if most long-term relationships are just utilitarian in nature and then it's hidden under the guise of "love" ... like, it is a real headache to think about.

[Vesuvius87]

I think people might get upset at the MGTOW because most of the times, they tried to excused it with ''I don't have to deal with women anymore'' so it's like they're not really happy being single. They're upset at how the dating world have turned out.
A person that's really happy about being single and wants no relationships at all, would just say they're single and don't feel the need to identity themselves with any of those labels or add any explanation towards it.
I guess a good happy ending to the story is out of the cheating mother and forgiving guy, the poster is actually waiting till marriage and has a strong views on sex and commitment. She came out the total opposite of her mother, a lady with values.. wow. I guess I'll give them credit right there.

[Vesuvius87]

The sad part is the poster is keeping her parents' past a secret from her sisters and everyone else. On another post, she claims she won't tell anyone what she found and will just go along with the happy family thing. I guess who would even want to share that? It's embarrassing.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Vesuvius87 Not to mention her opinion and feelings about her own parents has had to change... no it isn't a big happy family. The other siblings might see that change and not understand why at all. She knows some dark facts about her parents... just going to live with that by herself. On top of all of that... the mindset could spread out to the kid's kids.

Forgive me, my brain hurts from thinking about it. Manipulation of any type just turns relationships into a shit show.

[Tulipsxoxo]

Omg guys.. that's a dramatic story. Unlike that poster, my parents never cheated on each other, well not that I know of and hopefully not.
So by logic, the man that takes back the cheating woman can be BS with her cries, pleadings, etc. It's like both him and her perhaps have a hard time finding someone for a relationship? The man is probably having issues in the dating world or has limited options so likely doesn't want to be alone so that's his safer option in his mind, even if she cheated. Meanwhile the woman won't find any quality man and the like you stated the guy she cheats with is just into the sex but not commitment... so she'll stay with the man she cheated on.
I'm assuming that when she gets to a certain age and still married to the man that forgave her, she doesn't have anymore options and likely isn't cheating anymore due to age... if she's like 40-50 years old by then. By then she's happy with her provider and the man is ok with a woman that at least stays with him.

[Tulipsxoxo]

Guys in the end, that woman got rewarded don't you think?
- She cheats with her boyfriend's best friend. Cheating with another man is already bad enough but with the guy's friend? How low can that be?
- Out of the many places to cheat, she brings the guy in the boyfriend's house and does the nasty on his couch; it's like she wanted to get caught or something. Why would anyone cheat at a place so obvious to get caught?
- Not only does she gets taken back, forgiven for that horrible cheating but she still gets her marriage proposal; the guy still marries her and has kids with her... with that immoral woman.

If that's not getting rewarded, I don't know what it is? She did bad and good things happened to her... lol

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think you see why I'm saying he's as much of the problem as her. It's been allowed, accepted, and then provided for... by him. And it doesn't do him any favors as he's writing journals about it that his daughter can find and read all about it. You can guess he's in mental hell about it all and just living with it.

That goes back to my assumption that she picked a guy like this for a reason. Systematically tear him and his ego down and turn him into a workhorse. Nothing but cash and prizes for one party of the relationship... while the other writes journals about his anguishes.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Sorry about the double write... I literally had a puke fest in the middle of writing that. Bad beer or the potatoes I ate was bad. The concept I was trying to convey was basically the same... one before puking and one after... pretty gnarly.

[HighValue]

The men they cheat with only want casual sex, not a relationship.

Actual good quality men won't want a cheater.

The men you described are usually their only option for a relationship.

[Tulipsxoxo]

Then it makes sense. Those female cheaters just stay with their safe option and not out of love; they only love what those simps provide.

[bamesjond0069]

Alpha fucks beta bucks. The simp pays the rent and bills and rubs their feet at the end of the day. They can go out and sleep around with alphas all they want knowing their lifestyle is secure.

[Tulipsxoxo]

yes and the alpha (supposedly the guy she cheated with) won't ever commit so therefore she can't stay with him. By staying with the man that forgave her for the cheating, I guess she's settling... knows she's not a high quality woman but at least she's willing to be stay and be her provider. So basically she gets to have her cake and eat it but still get rewarded if taken back.

[Billlewis]

This is exactly the kind of wimp I am, and I accept whatever treatment my mistress deigns to administer.

[Jamie05rhs]

Because they can do what they want and get away with it.

[Tulipsxoxo]

Sick mindsets indeed. I was just reading a horrible story about a woman that cheated with a guy's best friend. She turned on the waterworks, bought her boyfriend a new couch and done a bunch of things to supposedly ''make it up'' to him. Somehow the guy still marries her years later. I'm puzzled.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Tulipsxoxo Wow. That guy was really gullible.

[Tulipsxoxo]

Indeed. I guess those female cheaters need those gullible men as providers, which means she still wins in the end; she's still benefiting and he isn't.

[Tulipsxoxo]

I guess she got rewarded after all, rewarded doing something terrible, lol

[Jamie05rhs]

@Tulipsxoxo It's one of those things that just makes you shake your head.

[LiamJHayden]

He's at home watching the kids and paying the bills while she gets hit by anyone she wants.

[Anonymous]

They benefit from using their money or something like that.

[abc3643]

This is a very fucking offensive question.
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[Tulipsxoxo]

Fine then. I didn't generalize. I'm asking what I've observed. Certain men do take back a woman that cheats. Those female cheaters stay with those men.

[abc3643]

This is not something you observed:
"They are weak men for sure aka simps or fools."

This is something that simplistic, immature people believe because they haven't lived long enough to recognize the complexities of life.

[Anonymous]

They're money in the bank.

[Tulipsxoxo]

That makes sense then. They are still using the man that took her back as her safety option. So basically he's just a provider to her but not someone she loves.