What’s the thing you wish the opposite gender would stop doing?

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kao118 · Accepted Answer

Lying and beating around the bush! I mean, I don't want to seem like that girl who thinks all men lie, because they don't, but sometimes it is exhausting trying to figure out what you want when you don't say it, and trying to figure out why you would say something to us that's obviously not true. I don't get it, and I genuinely think that it would be so much easier if we could both be truthful with each other. Not just in romantic settings, but I mean, like - the only time I lie to guys is when I feel unsafe or because they aren't being truthful to me, and I feel like saying a certain thing is the only thing that will fix the situation.

Labokachulaa · Accepted Answer

Trying to hold us accountable for other women's actions, but tell us that you cannot blame an entire group based upon one of their genders actions. (Lack of accountability basically)

If not this one, I would say, pretending to be interested in women just to get some ass. I cannot decide which of those are my biggest pet peeve.

HighValue · Accepted Answer

Stop using courts to steal children away from their fathers just so they can get nmore money that they use on themselves and then lie and turn the kids against the fathers by claiming he doesn't want to see them when she uses the court to prevent him from seeing his own kids.

I have met multiple guys that this happened to IRL and after their kids were grown up and talked with their father they realized that their mother was lying to them for years. There is still no way possible to ever get those years or experiences back and many women SUPPROT that kind of behavior even now when it is more publicly known.

AnUglyBarnacle · Accepted Answer

I have a tie:

1) Not saying what they mean / what they want / how they feel more directly or just outright lying about these things.

2) Playing hard to get.

Like, I understand it: women know that there is always some degree of threat for physical violence when interacting with a man should he become upset, hence the guarded or filtered behavior. Conversely, women need to realize that there is always some degree of threat for *social* violence when interacting with a woman, especially if she doesn't like you.

Summeroflove · Answer

Well most problems aren’t with all women. Just certain types. Same with men.  I don’t try to generalize people because it ain’t fair to the ones who aren’t like that

Sonorous · Answer

If I answer truthfully, ima piss off a lot of people.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I think guys need to stop being lazy with women. I knew a guy too lazy even to study for his real estate exam who expected me to lose 40 pounds so we could date. And I knew a guy who wanted to date me but would not help me carry things around when I was unloading our friend's car. A guy can't do nothing and ask the girl to do double what he does.

Guy13 · Answer

HyperText Hysteria Disorder...

Agape93 · Answer

Claim we are hard to understand but get combative when we explain it because they don't like the reason. Like how guys joke on women for going to the bathrooms as a group, but get mad when they find out it's to avoid being sexually assaulted

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Being boring.

For some reason a very large amount of women have no hobbies, no talents, little knowledge, poor vocabulary, bad hand-eye coordination, no imagination, and no value of fun.

Their lives are centered around "have sex" "make babies" "be mommy" and not much else, they hate thinking, they hate making art, they hate challenge, they hate video games and science and sci-fi and anime, and almost everything else that I find fun.

Exceptions exist, but fuck are they rare.

MCheetah · Answer

Women who only go after men over six feet tall and the top 1% of most attractive/wealthy men bitching about how "alone" they are and how "they can't find anyone" despite limiting their own standards to 1 for every 50,000 men out there, and then refusing to count all the dozens of men they rejected for being less than a 10 out of 10. It really grinds my gears.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

My guess is that...

A. Women wish:

1. that guys would stop being too jealous

2. that guys would stop being too possessive

3. that guys would stop with the toxic masculinity

B. Men wish:

1. that women would stop gossiping too much

2. that women would stop spending on unnecessary things

3. that women would stop being too emotional

dustybiker · Answer

I like the opposite gender better than my own. They annoy me (as a whole) a lot less. I’m pulling a blank on a broad question. Will think on this.

Aletheia223 · Answer

Generalizing and assuming beautiful women are all sluts, airheads, high maintenance, uptight, gold diggers, won't get their hands dirty, or bitchy.

JDavid25 · Answer

Stop acting like women cannot be evil and that only men can be controlling douchebags.. I know not all women do this, and in fact there are probably many who don't act like women are not just as capable of evil and controlling as men..

Also, saying that women "just have better control" over their sex drive than men.. Most men have extremely good control over our sex drive.. The few who are like dogs to a piece of juicy, raw steak is not the whole.

Mewzinc · Answer

Stop trying to one up each other. Lets just accept that there are shitty people on both sides. Horrible things happening to both genders. We need each other at the end of the day and there is no point in fighting.

Belgie · Answer

Saying men are impossible to understand.

Men have no difficulty understanding other men and its not because we understand complexity or subtlety.

We are simpler than you are willing to believe, and that's your problem not ours.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Fucking the wrong people and fucking over the right people.

xJeremyx · Answer

Having expectations for us yet not meeting those expectations themselves.  Gotta expext the same things from yourself that you would expect from others.

NathanDavis · Answer

hmm... stop being amazing I want to have a reason to complain here, about you all as a whole... lmao I got nothing, no complaints

petitedollbabee · Answer

Harassing or even assaulting women when they say no to your advances. No means no.

tzdc21 · Answer

Using men just for free meals or because they're bored or trying to get over an ex, while convincing him that you're actually interested in him.

Sixgunsound · Answer

As a whole gender? That is difficult. I wish specific individuals would stop doing things but I think as a whole gender the female traits that survived evolutionary biology exist for a reason.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Learn how to let things go. Don't say you're over something and then bring it up again the next day or next week.

Anonymous · Answer

Leaving the toilet seat up. Last night I sat down on the toilet and fell into it with no seat down.  He got no breakfast made as punishment

Kayla45 · Answer

Men scratching their balls in public and doing the quick sniff thing, looking around to see if anybody spotted them... 🤦‍♀️

icedragoom · Answer

If would like for the opposite of gender to stop quickly judging a book by its cover and give some other men a second chance.

Clairebear799 · Answer

I think both genders a percentage nor all have a hard time taking NO for a answer

Weapon77 · Answer

Sleeping with every fucking guy they meet 😂 That's exaggeration, but it'd be great if girls woukd quit sleeping around all the time and acting like it's empowering when they are letting men use them for their bodies like a disposable tissue.

pers0n · Answer

I see nothing wrong with the female gender itself.

Sisters_Of_Time · Answer

Hating all of us for it not working out with some women ya suddenly we are all the same evil demons having it out for the guys//

SnowedIn · Answer

Assuming that all men are [fill in the blank] because of a past experience or because their friend had that experience.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

I think women do a LOT of virtue signaling... Less of that would be great...

LindsayR07 · Answer

Poking me in the lower back first thing in the morning

LiamJHayden · Answer

Being so alluring and adorable. Not completely. Just turn it down a bit so I'm not so distracted all the time.

KansasX · Answer

Stop doing all this trans shit where they take our spot in women's sports and various competitions. Let us have our thing and be women!

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Assuming things/ telling me what I think and then getting mad at me for not thinking what you think I think. Bruh. Don’t get mad at me because I didn’t get the memo about your assumptions

Helllo123 · Answer

For guys not to judge on a first date even if you sleepover their place because you don’t know the person at all.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Talking! Not in shut the fuck up, but more in the manner what girlies talk about. In my time living in Texas it was referred to as clucking.

DJB72 · Answer

Walking the streets dressed like a hooker, then complain men look at the skin on show. And vice versa.

BJP21 · Answer

Being unrealistic and having unrealistic expectations.

Shamalien · Answer

Sabotaging good things. It’s like if you treat a woman too well she just sabotages it. Something to do with low self esteem; they want to be treated shittier

AmeerX · Answer

Stop being too bossy and try to be thrifty. And please no make up and stupidity. Be more intelligent 🤓

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Stop constantly nagging at guys and bringing drama that be nice.

Minxxie · Answer

Sexual violence.

Minahh · Answer

Lying because we fucking know

Crafteroon · Answer

Waiting for guys to make the first move.

RavVid · Answer

Saying NO to sex with me of course :)

Looksnicholas · Answer

Drama for the sake of drama.

TotallyAlmost · Answer

Turning into the opposite gender.

Noahzaid · Answer

Sleeping with different people

Fireguy17 · Answer

trying to change you into something you are not.

Fuentes · Answer

Bothering me lol

JPresidente · Answer

Nothing. Just keep looking pretty... lol

msc545 · Answer

Treating men like shit.

SlavicThor · Answer

Always on their phones and social media

sassy_receptor · Answer

blaming women for all their problems

Avcfhcic · Answer

Rejecting me 😂

slatyb · Answer

Voting Republican

Tracker1958 · Answer

Stop having sex with everything with a penis.

suzzieQ · Answer

Raping

Dildорhobe · Answer

Using dildos.

In_Trance · Answer

wearing makeup

Guardian45 · Answer

Lying and cheating

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