What is your definition of a perfect person?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Would you want to be with a perfect person? Or you are fine with an imperfect one...

[TenderFantasy]

Sadly no one is perfect, we are all imperfect beings. We make mistakes based on emotions or impatience even without all the facts, etc. Also, no one can know EVERYTHING this life has to offer, maybe some can come somewhat close? But there are just so many books out there, articles, knowledge from personal experiences, etc. etc. etc.! I WISH though that I was a perfect person, maybe then I'd live till 100 lol and never get sick or suffer from a chronic illness or a terminal illness, etc, etc. Even aging sucks. Heartbreak sucks. Aging sucks. PEOPLE SUCK! Lol.

[TenderFantasy]

And to answer your question, I think the "perfection" definition varies from person to person. Some are with someone to have children or to have a sex partner. Some were ARRANGED in marriage. Some made impulsive decisions with their hormones and that is why they are in the situation they are in now, etc. etc. So with that said, I'd rather be with someone imperfect, but I just hope those FLAWS I can live with! No one is perfect as I said. Even my own parents who've been together since 1976 and just celebrated their 46th this past week.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I read your other question. On fake people. People can be diplomatic in what they want.

Tell you what. You need to be extra careful from your relatives. My uncle sweet talked his way in getting a huge land from my grandmother. That is low.

You need to be extra attentive and hopefully you find way through things. Never trust anyone. And never expect anything from anyone. I firmly believe in these two sentences.

[trina_x]

the perfect person has flaws but doesn't blame them for all their issues and isn't horrible because of them

like my friend M

she has horrible anxiety and a lot of trauma, she breaks down a lot and struggles with loads of shit

but she still does everything she can to be selfless and a good friend while also keeping herself in tact, she works hard and gets stuff done

absolutely deserves the world in my opinion

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

That's deep. And insightful.

[MCheetah]

Perfection doesn't exist, but a lot of people think they're perfect in today's world (more women than men, but both genders.)

I guess a stereotypical "perfect" person has to be tall; at least five inches above the "average" height, good looking, fit, athletic, healthy, have clear skin, clear teeth, and be "loved by almost everyone." The looks are somewhat easier to obtain than the personality though, especially since in my opinion, attractive people tend to be assholes more often than not.

But no one is truly "perfect."

[SnowedIn]

There isn't such a person. Everyone has flaws. But, more so, there's a least one thing that people do that annoys/bothers/frustrates someone else -- so they are not perfect. In answer to your second question, though, no, I wouldn't want to be with the perfect person. All of my many flaws would be exponentially magnified and they would have zero sympathy and empathy for me. It would be miserable. I'll stay with imperfect.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

What is dirt for one person is diamond for the other, right?

[SnowedIn]

YES! That exactly!

[OlderAndWiser]

Perfect people do not exist.

[Summeroflove]

Jesus…. That’s about it sorry

[menina]

Unfortunately there's no such thing as a perfect person. However, some people have more qualities than others. Some people are able to admit their flaws and work on changing themselves for the better. So I guess they're the closest from the perfection.

[NathanDavis]

NOPE...

that concept does not belong in my Natetionary...

[SnowedIn]

"Nateionary". LOVE it!

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Awesome!
That word is made up but weirdly enough, feel at home.

[NathanDavis]

all words were made up though... lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

A woman I find attractive that keeps their youth/doesn't age (like me), that I get along with 100% of the time while spending 100% of my time with her, is my definition of a perfect person.

Basically a woman who has everything mental in common with me, hobbies, opinions, personality, attention requirements, etc. (minus sexual preferences) And is cute and has exceptional health.

Others might find her completely horrible, but thats my version of perfect.

[peacesncream]

Imperfect person but I am perfect for me🥰 and no one is perfect we all make mistakes

[AsaKyo]

Someone who is willing to admit they make mistakes and have serious flaws without being embarrassed about it

[Adam1978]

Perfect people doesn't exist. Because that would imply that there is nothing that can be improved upon.

[Dnice1]

No one is perfect everyone has their flaws. Besides it's better to imperfect.

[Anonymous]

I suggest a person with a high degree of synergy and compatibility with you is likely to be considered closer to perfection.. as far as you are concerned. They just slot into your life, bring out the best in you and you them.

[tenor55]

I am sure glad my wife of 50 years has been fine with my imperfections!

[clampfan101]

I know one. His birthday’s in 3 days. 😇

The rest of us are meant to have imperfections. A huge part of what makes a great person is tied to how they deal with them.

[Anonymous]

A 28 year old native woman who works as our office assistant and has an angelic smile.

[aaron210419]

There no such thing as even remotely close to perfect, we all have flaws and things we need to work on.

[Justneedtokno]

A baby that is as pure as you can be

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

That is unexpected. But quite true and correct!

[Justneedtokno]

Well, thank you. What are you talking about relationships

[Phoenix98]

I don't have one.

[XXblack88]

Imperfect is fine

[Kelly6]

Loyal

trust

and love

[BJP21]

There isn't one.

[BCRanger10]

Jesus Christ.