Can you tell instantly if someone is immature?

[KezHarris]

What makes you think someone is immature or mature?

Yes I can

No I can’t

I don’t know

Depends on the person

[caring__1]

Maturity is determined by the age of the individual. A 22-year-old who acts like a 14-year-old is immature, whereas a 10-year-old who acts like a 12-year-old is not immature. Generally, the best way to determine maturity is to look at their actions. Do they show consideration for others, or are their choices self-focused? Do they focus on what feels good for the moment, or do they consider potential long-term effects on themselves, others and the situation? Obviously, we can't observe patterns instantly, so be patient and keep your eyes open. It's the patterns over time that are important, not how pretty a snapshot looks. When we're observant, we don't need a lot of time to become aware of patterns, but time is necessary to compare behaviors in different settings.

[Guy13]

I do not know how without much time with them. Very sophisticated people can be immature 11-15 developmentally Narcissist

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Depends on the person

[Sparkie460]

I can tell by the way they act and how they talk