When in a relationship, have you still developed feelings for other people?

[KezHarris]

how did you deal with the situation?

yes I have

no I haven't

I don't know/ not in a relationship

[DJB72]

It's be crazy to assume you wouldn't have feelings. The issue is what you do with them.

You have two choices, leave the relationship and pursue the feelings or find a way to remove yourself from the source of the feelings. Either reduce or eliminate contact with the person you have feelings for or find a way to ensure you're not in a position to compromise your relationship. Accountability to your romantic partner would be a way to do that. Tell them you're being tempted with feelings for someone else and ask them to help you while they burn out. If it's just emotional, they'll pass. Real Love is a choice, not a feeling. It goes infinitely deeper than mere feelings.

[Guy13]

Not yet but I am one of those all-in doting but definitely not incel guys.

No one is going to approach me because I smell taken.-i have been told that before.

[Anemone978]

Left the relationship because I knew it wasn't real love..

[Vikkrram]

See you can't control your feelings and can't hold back and hide it , if you love someone.

So i think you have started to have feelings for someone else being in an relationship and it is bothering you?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I have, but it didn't work out.

[clampfan101]

Do crushes with fictional characters count? lol

[EaterPeter]

Try to ignore as much as I can. Let it fade away.