What should I say to her?

[Anonymous]

So I have this friends with benefits relationship and I’m pretty certain I fell for her TBH. I want to tell her what I think but I got no idea how to approach the situation. I’m not head over heels for her or anything like that but I’m much happier after talking to her and I appreciate having her in my life. Even if nothing romantic comes I’d be happy just having her around.

Updates

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I forgot to mention I was the one who took her virginity. I don’t know if that’s important info.

[kylee2437]

You are still trying to fight your feelings lol it’s okay to want romance, it’s okay to have feelings and it’s okay to want to be with someone. You are saying now that you would be okay with nothing to come out of it - but I highly doubt you actually are. You need to talk to her and you need to tell her how you feel. It’s amazing when a guy catches feelings through this because more than likely she has also caught feelings. I advise - you take her out on a date, form a bond beyond the bedroom and go from there

[Asker]

Thanks I’ll remember this

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yeah just talk to her about... don't be a pussy. I would say tell her just what you told us here on the internet dot com. Nothing more and nothing less. Brink of the idea of an exclusive relationship... if she runs for the hills then that's just not what she wanted. Chicks though always want that shit in my opinion. Shoot your shot. See if it hits the target.

[Guy13]

Perhaps, given you two vibe, you want to have a vocabulary discussion. If she’s not emotional in anyway then brace yourself. “Catching Feelings” is the topic face-face ONLY.

[Anonymous]

She have any kids?

[Asker]

No I’m 21 and she’s around 20