What does feeling in love feel like?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I never have fallen in love. I don’t think I’m capable of doing so.

[AmeerX]

Oh my God. Have you never felt love for a man?

Sasha it is so amazing. The romance even as a crush is a feeling out of this world.

I pray 🙏 that not even my enemy has a lover that breaks there heart.

Okay I will explain the feeling.

First is the goosebumps I felt. I mean my mind would always love feeling better for the lover.

Then you look at them and Tou can sleep peacefully and when they are around the scent is so amazing 😍. It refreshed me and I kept on going even during the worst situations. I think they had war time penpals as girls to cheer the soldiers for that reason alone.

Oh and I admit when I felt like she was the one I used to enjoy the pleasure)) even when I knew they are not going to be around.

For some reason, I automatically knew who will be in my life and who would not just from the way they talked. But it never made me upset except this one girl. She was such a Tomboy and yet a sweetheart)).

Oh and I only held hands. We never really high in our culture 😅.

But even that one time I held hands felt like this aura gushing through me.

The best part. I used to think it was lust but my feelings didn't die out. I just accept you can't marry everyone. So you marry the girl or boy with you can love normally. But you need to keep a lover even though you don't cheat because lovers are a thing of fantasy. They are not someone who will judge you. They don't want to look at the money and they don't want to care about how you look or do the things.

They are just someone I wish heaven will be filled with. The girls who broke my heart I wish them to be in heaven and those you didn't I wish them to be in heaven too ))

[Asker]

Keep a lover? Can you explain that?

[Asker]

Like, I was with you until that part. It’s like you’re making it sound you should keep someone on the back burner WHILE you’re in a relationship.

[AmeerX]

What are you crazy 🤣. No not back burner. Or second option.
It's just some marriages are not marriages of love. They are marriages of convenience or power or union of families. Arranged marriage is basically a milder form of that.

May be you don't know but imagine you wanted to marry a guy and may be he is unavailable or you got married off sooner. Or may be just you can't get together because you two don't want to ruin the platonic friendship or you both got married to separate spouses.

You can love more than one person. It's something a little hard to explain I guess

[AmeerX]

I give my friends example. He has a wife and he has a lover. He knows they both can't be together but he didn't dump her. And she also loves him

He talks to her from to time and the wife he wants to tell when she is a little bit more understanding towards him.

[AmeerX]

If life was perfect then this wouldn't have happened to anyone but life's not perfect and life's choices are far from perfect

[Asker]

So have a side piece?

[Asker]

If I was in a relationship right now, I should expect my guy to have a lover on the side? Meaning, he didn’t truly want to be with me.

[AmeerX]

Your situation is probably different.

Tell me about it, would you be okay if you are shown a picture of a man and someone else just okays him for marriage for you and you have to be sleeping with a man with absolutely no idea but the picture of him 🙄.

You could say side piece but problem is we don't have same luxury to date someone as in your country

[AmeerX]

Relationship and marriage are two different things. You can be married to someone without a prior relationship. But you can't be in love with someone if you just marry them quite literally off the street because your elders told you so

[Asker]

You’re right, my situation is different. If my future guy doesn’t want to be with me, he needs to say so.

[AmeerX]

True but we diverted from the question lol.
Sasha you are in a liberal society 🙂.
And I am not 😔. I don't like hook up and that but it's still better than what we are getting in general.

[Kaneki05]

Most people say it feels great or whatever else but the truth is it feels unselfish. It's not something that is automatically good. For example it's not good if the person you love gets with another person however if you love them you'll be glad they are happy.
Because it's selfless don't mean it is always good for yourself really.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Falling in love can feel different for everyone. For me, it feels all warm, happy, and floaty. But it is definitely a strong emotion and feeling to have.

[mobiusforniner]

Love is sacrifice. Its giving up something for someone else. For me personally, i know im in love... when it hurts. Because im putting someone else before me.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

It feels like nothing else matters. It doesn’t matter if you’re poor or failed your dreams. All that’s matters is her.

[In_Trance]

You know what you need to do

[BJP21]

This ^^^^ and take fucking around past 10. LOL

[driven159]

It is like you are floating on clouds and your only thought is of your partner 24/7

[Bklynbadboy12]

It's hard to describe but it's one of the most beautiful intense feelings you could ever have

[Summeroflove]

Amazing

[BJP21]

You will know it when you encounter it.