How do you know if someone hates you without you knowing?

[CoolCatMar1]

[AmeerX]

I know a lot of people hate me without knowing it.

There is no one way but you get an idea. Like in my case I look for subtle signs to find if someone hates me or not.

1. Like they will try to one up you on everything.

2. If you are doing something good a lot of people will hate you or pass comments. e. g you want to buy something inexpensive like a mobile. Lots of your friends might say oh get an apple get an iphone etc etc. But you know you can't afford so you get a Chinese mobile and they will be like oh dude you got a cheap phone. Well dude, you have to pay the bills no one is gonna come to you to pay them for you. So why trouble yourself with an expensive phone. Same goes for a shirt and trousers I buy mine at discount and my friends will be like come on Ameer you can get that M&S Pants or that Levi's jeans but you go for the local or surplus export stuff at 1/5 the the price. Well guys, I have to care for my appearance if I buy something expensive then my future children will automatically expect me to buy expensive for them then who is gonna pay the burden. We need to understand value of money. Trust me if you have a good friend he or she will never tell you to squander your money on stupid stuff. I mean I don't look like a tramp I am not miserly and I probably spend a lot for my friends then myself too. But I don't think I would be happy if I know I am wasting money while my fellow citizens are unable to afford that much.

3. Then there will be hostility you can feel in the air. E. g. you can see your support going down exponentially. True somethings we might be doing wrong but you will have a feeling that tells you you are on the right in such situations. God will guide your path.

4. It pertains to point 2, about friends. I mean look around you. If someone just wants to keep you on spending on stupid stuff like plastic and non durable things then trust me he is not your friend. He is misguiding you. IIf you have a family heirloom, always protect it with your life. It might feel garbage but it is actually generations of love and trust passed on to you. I know this might sound old fashioned or even backward. But, if one person has 10 cars in his garage and someone else has an old parcel of land like a family inheritance. Always go for the latter. You might say why; because the one whose stake is in land will think of it like mother. You can sell land after a lengthy process and usually it grounds us to our country.

But if someone has 10 Ferraris even then he is not as grounded in place. He might look rich and glamourous but that's certainly not the same. This is a local example though.

[Pleebody21]

It comes back to you especially if they speak to others as such. Otherwise body language, reactions to ideas or conversations, reactions in a group or just plain coldness. Hatred is an extremely cold place.

[jennifer_bloom]

I find if somebody does not like me - they will not initiate contact and will only talk if I initiate contact. Also if they are petty with you - like they will not buy anything other than coffee when you guys visit at the coffee shop - they are not willing to extend social events past the scheduled time by 20 minutes if you suggest going on an additional walk - they make sure you see the receipt when they buy you a gift etc...

[lalaloveee]

Amateurs reveal their hatred without your understanding, but if they are professional, often looks like your best friend.

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes get it

[bean2k21]

Slaves are not allowed to talk to each other.

[NathanDavis]

I would not see that as a hate...

maybe they do not like something about me, or they don't like me... which is more normal but hate is a strong word and when they do, it usually shows one way or another, it cannot be contained because hate is a very strong feeling

if they can mask it and hide it, then that is something else... maybe they do not like you, they do not approve of you, maybe they just do not click with you... BUT, since they do not come forward with it, that is probably because the problem is more about them than it is about you, lol

[SnowedIn]

I have never known up front but they always trip up by something they say or do or write. And it always, always backfires because they look petty or vindictive.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

They are indifferent to whatever you do. They are not bothered by anything you do.

[dustybiker]

On here they usually block you and toss stones when in anon.

[bowenw]

I don't believe it is possible unless you catch them talking about you behind your back or they do something to reveal their true feelings.

[Wicked_Witch]

Some people may hide it too well. I say if they are too afraid to let their true thoughts out that is on them.

[Andres77]

I wished I'd figured that out years ago. There always seemed to be someone talking trash behind my back. Frustrating.

[Blackcupcake]

hmmm I don’t know… but I guess you can read their vibe and attitude?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

If they're Islamophobic, transphobic (I'm non-binary), antisemitic, homophobic (I'm bisexual), or xenophobic (I'm weird), they bloody hate me.

[LiamJHayden]

Hmmm. Not sure I would care, but I would think that the person would treat me poorly if we ran into each other.

[abc3643]

Your question is oxymoronic.
Can you please rephrase this question?

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

By their attitude when talking to you, snotty remarks whenever you talk, their body language etc.

[DerkR]

The way that person looks at you and behaves when they are in the same environment as you

[Summeroflove]

Many times you can feel it

[Jennz6]

I’m not really sure?

[LavLavLuv]

I just know..🐍🐍

[Charliefretz329]

You can’t… 🧐

[nilex4185]

Behaviour