Can a guy love more than one person?

[Cali86]

If so, how is it possible?

You can only love one person.

[caring__1]

It is possible in polyamorous relationships, but it is very challenging, and the feelings must be at least somewhat diluted. Generally, people who claim they love multiple partners are just attempting to legitimize their own selfish desires... wanting their cake and eat it too. To give multiple people the focus, attention and passion found in an ideal relationship would be draining (and would probably be lifespan shortening). The ideal relationship is spontaneous, creative and loving, yet it's unlikely for a multiple love to survive without scheduling, to make sure the attention is balanced. How many bowls of soup can you get from a one quart pot? Will everyone be satisfied with what they get? Yes loving multiple people is possible, but it's up to you to decide if you want to share or not.

[SnowedIn]

Yes, they can.

The way it's possible is that the various ingredients that allowed to love one person allow you to love another person.

It doesn't mean that you stop loving the first person or that you have to act on the second love but it's possible.

It's why you can love someone and still end a relationship with them. Or love someone and years later fall in love with another. The love for the previous person doesn't necessarily go away.

[AmandaYVR]

People disbelieve, and stand in judgment, of what they themselves have not experienced.

It's not gender-specific. Is it wrong to love two men at the same time?

[Yesdarlingmoon]

There is a difference between love and being in love. you can definitely love more than one person, but you can truly only be in love with one

[Guy13]

I’m with you. Love one only or all of those relationships are grounded upon Lust or Eros.

[humanearth]

Yes anyone can

You can love many people.

I love my kids, my wife, my family and more

[Cali86]

That's not what I meant. I meant love more than one woman.

[humanearth]

I do, my wife, my aunt, my grandmother, my sister

[Cali86]

How about romantic feelings and love?

[Rockstarrrrr]

I think you can really like two people at the same time but it doesn't go on forever.. After a while one of them must become your favorite..

[Cali86]

I believe this. Someone always gets hurt

[Rockstarrrrr]

Definitely

[Sparkie460]

I love my daughter, sister and my mom when she was alive but I'm in love with my wife. There's a difference between loving and being in love

[Cali86]

How about romantic love?

[Sparkie460]

Romantic love and in love fall in the same category. When you are in love you are Romantic with that person

[Cali86]

So can you have romantic love for more than one person?

[Sparkie460]

No. I know I can't

[Cali86]

I met a guy who has gotten out of a serious relationship and we got along and he said he loved me but he lives far away. He met someone else a few months later and her loves her too. He's coming to visit me now and said he loves us both. So he's in an open relationship now.
Can he really love us both?

[Sparkie460]

He can love both of you but he's not in love with you.

[Cali86]

That's better wording.

[Matrix3003]

Love more than one person no, but I my case I have two imposible love, two exes. I’m feeling something for they.

[Anonymous]

he can but the pain of the heart thorn in 2 is unimaginable

[Brando10222]

It becomes more like lust and not love.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I love my entire family.

[Cali86]

That's not what I meant. I meant love more than one woman.

[Opinion Owner]

OK, well I love my mom and all my sisters. They're all women.

[Cali86]

Just forget my question