Is it normal for a girlfriend to bring up my ex’s consistently?

[Elijahsimono]

I’ve been noticing since the beginning with my girlfriend that she brings up my ex’s because she feels insecure. I understand this and try to help her but I’ve expressed to her I don’t like my ex’s to come up in conversations all the time especially intimate conversations between me and her. It seems that even after I’ve talked to her about my how I feel about her bringing up my ex’s she still brings them up.

[Guy13]

How big of a red flag do you need? She is still in love with her past or simply too immature for serious relationship.

[Anonymous]

I try not to mention my husband's exes espicially the one who's an ex model, miss America contestant, 6ft tall, long legs, tanned, pretty, speaks 2 languages, used to compete in college and state athletics, a masters at college, who does lots of charity work whom my mother in law just loves.

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Your girlfriend isn’t ready for a relationship.