I make more money than her. But things took a turn all of a sudden. Now what?

[Anonymous]

I was in a relationship with this girl that only wants a guy that makes more money than her. Been with her for 3 years. Two week ago, I suddenly dumped her. I figured that since she only wants a guy that makes more money than her, she's no support or peace for me should life happen. She's been nothing but an insurance policy for 3 years. So I cut her out. And she was so broken hearted like never before. Is love based on trust, respect, dignity, and ambition or just on money? The last thing I need is a money-hungry baby-girl looking for a baby-daddy. Think this was a wise move?

[kylee2437]

Yes it was a wise move for you. A woman that is truly genuine is going to know that life happens. The guy I’m seeing, he was making more money than me when we just met a month ago, but because work got slow after the holidays, he got demoted. It’s life. That doesn’t make him less

[Curmudgeon]

The latin "Quid pro quo" comes to mind. So she wants a man who can finally support her? She had better bring some aspects of herself to the relationship in return.