
Talk to me Baby but only if you dont disagree?


What one has is an absence of communication. Thinking one is communicating in a relationship that uses Communication as Punishment is self-delusional. Underneath the silent killer are interpersonal perceived differences that are most likely the Cause of the deafening silence and punishment.
Perhaps the question should be, "what is keeping us from communicating?" rather than "why won't you talk to me or why do you refuse to talk to me?" Let's see, defining the incongruousness, without judgmental tone or nonverbals, in worldview, goals, and communication styles may be a good starting point. Whether it be a cold-shoulder or loud screaming blow out tendencies, one has got to go deeper and speak in terms of "what I see in me... what do you see?" This requires risk but communicates in a short measure the desperation felt to open oneself to a volcanic eruption of emotion from another.
One should brace oneself in calmness, soft eyes, and restrained critique and analysis...
In my opinion... NO EXPERT.
First be certain they're using it as punishment and that you're just not being overly sensitive. You don'always HAVE TO agree with a partner. You can respectfully agree to disagree. If this is common place you have to ask yourself if you're with the right partner.
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Is it BDSM or something? well mouth gag is not uncommon in BDSM, so here you go. :)
Why would you want to punish your boyfriend?
You risk driving them away
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