How do I get a girl to say she loves me?

[Anonymous]

Me and this girl are talking and I say I love her all the time which she's fine with and so am I but she's never open with expressing her feelings so it's hard for her to say she likes me or loves me etc

[Anonymous]

If it's really important to you and you've already said it as you say. You communicate your need to here and feel it as well. You give her time, and then if she hasn't said it and some point you end the relationship.

You can't MAKE someone say something. They have to want to say it. And they might not be in the cards for her and you.

Good luck man.

[SnowedIn]

Patience.

And, perhaps, start, you know, dating her? Make it official?

[Asker]

Ok this is going to sound dumb but we don't want to yet 😅 we just like spending time together right now

[SnowedIn]

That's fair and I respect that. However, if you don't want to make it official then it is WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too early to say "I love you" and hope/expect her to say it back.

[Asker]

Yeah your probably right

[SnowedIn]

But, sorry, I didn't answer your original question. You asked how to get her to say she loves you. The answer is nothing. Continue to invest in her and love her (with actions -- STOP saying it). Do whatever it is that already has her attracted to you and build the relationship. It will come in time.

[Asker]

Your good about not answering the question but yeah that's what I plan on doing I wanna be with her forever but thanks a lot

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO.

[Asker]

Yeah ofc we got our date planned now also lmao

[SnowedIn]

That's AWESOME!

[melanieeeB]

Are you just talking to her? Not officially dating? And if yes, the fuck? Why already saying those words... I personally would only say it if I mean it and she might not feel ready yet

[Asker]

We're talking but I truly do mean it

[melanieeeB]

Kinda creepy... maybe take it a little slow

[melanieeeB]

I know I would immediately leave if a guy that I'm only talking to already said that

[Asker]

But that's the thing she likes when I say it to her but she never says it back

[melanieeeB]

Maybe she just likes the attention... have you been on a date with her? Is it in planning?

[Asker]

In the planning but we've hung out before

[melanieeeB]

Okay, then well have fun on your date and all and she might not say it back cause she is not ready yet

[Asker]

Yeah I understand that but thanks for the help

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Love is a wonderful thing & you shouldn’t have to make or get someone to say they love you it should just come naturally so give her some time & if she truly loves you she’ll tell you & show you as well.

[In_Trance]

You can't