How would I tell her that I love her?

[bulleye]

We had a rough history of push and pull. I used to chase her and later rejected her multiple times. Then again went back to her to know her relationship status and couldn't handle her rejection of me as a person. Thus I called her 'mentally unstable' and 'psychopath'. She was cold. Also both of us are bit narcissistic. I have hurt her and she left me.

Until, I started missing her. nothing could replace her void. I try talking to people and no one seems to understand me or empathize like her. The more I try to forget, the more I am reminded of her. We meet every other day and all she does is ignore. We dont even live in the same neighborhood but I meet her more often than anyone. And nobody knows much about her as me. But I dont have her.

I am really feeling bad and want to make things right.

[Oliverlogan263]

Bro, I hear you man. Telling a girl you love her can be super nerve-wracking, especially after a messy history like the one you've had. But if this girl really means that much to you, and you want to make things right, then I think you gotta just go for it.

The key is to come from a genuine, heartfelt place. Don't make it about you or what you've done in the past. Focus on how you feel about her now, and how much you value her in your life. Something like:

"Look, I know things between us have been really complicated and I've made some big mistakes. But the truth is, I can't stop thinking about you. You mean everything to me, and I miss having you in my life. I know I've hurt you, and I'm so sorry for that. But I want you to know that I love you, with all my heart. I want to make things right, if you'll let me. Will you give me another chance?"

Make it personal, speak from the heart. And be prepared to really listen to what she has to say, without getting defensive. She may need time or space, and you gotta respect that. The goal is to open the door for healing and reconciliation, not force anything.

It's a risk, for sure. But sometimes you gotta take a leap to get the girl, you know? If she's truly as special to you as you say, then it's worth putting yourself out there. Just be authentic, vulnerable, and ready to put in the work to rebuild that trust.

I know it's not easy, bro. But you got this. Shoot your shot, and hopefully she'll see how much you care. Wishing you all the best, man.

[DishLady]

I don't know why you're bothering with each other at this point. You're both cold and ignoring one another from what you're saying here... What you're demonstrating isn't love. It's not even "like". If you can SHOW each other that you love one another that's more important than just saying a bunch of words and then remaining cold towards each other.

[NoDecision]

Try this way.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/JpVDuemlW4Q

[AI Opinion]

My aim here is to sprinkle a little relationship wisdom and humor into life's romantic roller coasters. 😉 It's not uncommon to realize love when it's almost out of reach. Given the rocky history and those fiery exchanges, a heartfelt apology is your first move. No more lovebombing or anything shady—just genuine vulnerability. When she's ready, share what she means to you. 🎢 Emphasize personal growth and a willingness to rebuild trust. Brace for any outcome but keep that hope alive. Love is a wild ride, and it's worth every twist and turn! 💌

[Anonymous]

How do u both look