Is this uncalled for?

[Anonymous]

I've been with a guy for 10 months. He has bad ocd, anyway I was about to shower at his house after he kindly cleaned the shower drain for me. Just before showering I realised I needed something outside of the shower. So I opened the door and put one foot out.
He shouted at me in a panic. Telling me how dirty my feet are on his rug he will now have to change. Anyway, he stood in the doorway shouting off about the rug and I just said stop, please leave and close the door. I found the whole thing a bit much and totally stressful.
I immediately got out and dressed and told him I was going to leave.
He was like 'yeah you should, this is why we're not compatible'.
The whole situation was very angry and I felt totally vulnerable in the shower firstly and then on me leaving. I just felt like he was being so immature. Couldn't be reasoned with to calm down to even talk. He continued to just shout and make me feel bad.
Anyway, I haven't spoke to him since and don't plan too, he over reacted right?
I haven't heard from him since- I assume he thinks I'm the devil trying to ruin his house and carpets. But my intention was to shower in peace and instead I felt attacked. No idea what to even think of it all, utterly shocked. He's 40

[Harleen74]

I think its fair for it to be too much for you - if you were left feeling like that then fair enough

Would also like to say however that OCD really isn't just "being a clean freak" like a lot of people think it is - its actually incredibly debilitating a lot of time (hence it being a disorder) - So I don't believe they were being immature for acting how they did?

Not saying it's something you should have to handle if that isn't what you want in life, but yeah - It's definitely something he could do with some level of help with because he sounds like he's having a really bad time with it!

[Anonymous]

This is why men can't have nice things.

Women just walk all over your rug.

Dirty bitches.

More seriously; he is a crazy person.

Even more seriously; how did you get to 10 months without knowing about these triggers?

[Asker]

Hahaha had to laugh!
Well, I never knew he suffered with ocd till I spotted it when I visited his house. Whenever we went on dates it was never mentioned by him, and it wasn't noticeable. Or at least I didn't spot anything that stood out to me.
The guy has serious control issues- he is funny about his possessions, can't have things touching other objects incase they scratch them, can't open detol wipes a certain way otherwise they're ruined. Do not even get me started on sex... that was another issue. Washing his hands after this and that, I must lean over on him due to bodily fluids. Honestly thinking about it now, what the hell am i doing with this guy

[Opinion Owner]

Well I would imagine that the first sign of a queef and you become unfuckable until you have touched all the yellow dots on a twister mat while doing a hand stand or you fire a ping pong ball out of your twot into wine glass.

I'm not sure all of that stuff is OCD though, insisting that you drool all over the balls is perfectly normal ;)

[spartan55]

I will bet that wasn't the first time he acted like that.

[Asker]

No, there was another time. Again shouting an explanation as to why I was wrong. Again I left pretty quickly. The guy doesn't think he has a problem

[spartan55]

So... why are you still with him? I would have been out after the first episode.

[SnowedIn]

You did just right. Surprised you lasted 10 months. Go forth and enjoy life without him.