A guy I considered a mutual friend of my girlfriend and mine, spanked her?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend has told me that she has dealt with it, and I accept it. I asked her if she wanted me to speak to him, she said no.

I've now completely reconsidered my friendship with him following this. He knows my girlfriend and I have been together for 7 months, he should have known how unacceptable it was to touch her that way and how awful it must have been for her.

My question is why? Why did he do it? He might have been drunk, but that isn't an excuse.

My girlfriend even told me that it happened to her twice. The first time she didn't know who did it... the second time she knew it was him.

[Gent207-2]

As a man that has dated an unfaithful woman, seriously hear the other man out.

You may be with someone who enjoys that attention and your protective reaction. I about butchered a friend for doing something similar till I heard his side of the story

[Asker]

OK, so I should hear out a guy who has inappropriately touched (possibly twice) my girlfriend of 7 months, who has been told by several other women that they feel uncomfortable by his advances, over my girl who has shown me nothing but love, respect, trust, and appreciation? Who has never once shown unfaithfulness or cheating of any kind whatsoever?

[Gent207-2]

Check yourself before you put him in the ground and yourself behind bars.
Bale isn't cheap

[Asker]

You're just projecting. A woman cheated on you, therefore everyone must question theirs. You're being vindictive.

[boggboss]

I'm so confused like how did he walk past and slap her ass or what

[Asker]

I think that's what happened... she told me soon after it happened. She also brought up the fact that someone had slapped her before but she didn't see who...

We spent pretty much all night in my girlfriend's kitchen, so it likely happened there, probably when I wasn't around. Just goes to show how much of a sick prick he is too

[boggboss]

But what I'm asking is how did he slap her ass or like vend her iver I'm confused probably from how ridiculous this is like who does that

[Asker]

What do you mean how did he slap her ass? With his hand
I can't understand the rest of what you said.

[boggboss]

Like did he walk by and do it or make a spectacle about did she say anything

[Asker]

I don't know... but what does that change?

[boggboss]

What do u mean what does that change if I found out that one of my friends slapped my gfs ass I would want to know every single detail for me to make a decision on what to do next and hoe to move forward if she told u want happened how do u not know these details

[NachtjaegerSS]

He just wants to fuck your girlfriend, teach her how to cum. The real question is did she like her spanking.

[Anonymous]

Id punch his lights out.

[Asker]

I really considered it... but it would have made the situation so much worse. I can't believe he felt it was OK and not thought about how it would make my girlfriend feel.

She's been inappropriately touched before, too. I see this guy in a totally different light now...

[Opinion Owner]

Make sure he knows how you feel.