What are the reasons you avoid your ex-crush, who you really loved, like never met ever in life, even if you are single?

[happyfoetus]

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The guy just hates me to his core for rejecting him despite several years has passed.
He now treats me the same way I used to treat him and is not even willing to hear my side.

[Guy13]

So, he liked you and you rejected him and now you want him and he is like, "hell no.. feel the pain, woman. Getting over rejection is quite difficult for a guy as you hurt his ego which is a deep hurt and he does not want you to know. You basically said, "Shewww, I don't need or want you." This is why he avoids you, however, if you ever can get him to speak then . First thing is to figure out is why you rejected him: cool factor, friends hate, not my type as he is going to want to know and admit you were wrong. Secondly, you sure he is single because few guys are not going to go for it unless something is working elsewhere. Thirdly, if there is anything that he does now that you like, ask him about it right off..."she's being noticing me" If there is anyway to make that into a hero thing then do it. We love that kind of affirmation. Even if nice to pet, older woman, art drawing, piano, or whatever... and you say, "touched my heart" then that's huge. This is a little beyond making and hearing him speak on the topic.

You can't whine, must plan, and hope that you can arrange a time. Using like friends or girlfriends in this part is often a good tool. Good luck !!

[weysally]

some guys just can't get over rejection, also its the way that some girls reject them and for what reason, one of my daughters friends, rejected a boy simple because he said would she like to go out with him, she said he should have said would you go out him, it was the word like that got her upset,

[peterrezeeek]

when i know that she doesn't love me...