Do you think they're people to ruined to have a relationship?

[DiegoO]

I believe I am one. Honestly, I've passed trough a lot of things. I just don't have the willingness and the energy to be in a romantic relationship. Beside that, I have the extreme necesity to start working and save money. Long story. My "father" push the family to the verge of poverty. O struggle to call him "father".

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[midnightmoon05]

Some yes. I don’t know you enough.
property is not a base of not having a romantic relationship. Negative mindset is. Not willing to change. Blaming others. Not taking responsibilities, selfishness, entitlement are the new generation of self destruction.

I grew up in property. My mom is very negative, my dad was angry. I chose to not be like them.

[menina]

Well, I do know that you're going through a difficult situation and you can't be in a relationship right now. But I don't think you're doomed. I guess you need time to focus on yourself, to improve your life. Then when you're in a better situation you'll be ready for a relationship.

[OlderAndWiser]

I think there are people for whom now is not the time, but I don't think you are too ruined and have no hope of being salvaged.

[Guy13]

Don’t do anything that would put you at emotional risk. You came through the rough parts. Looking forward is always good.

[Nikki1989]

Sadly, some people are their own worst enemy. It is just the way they are wired.

[legalboxers]

ex best friend did.

[LazerBean]

Yes, there are.