I know the 'how far' (and how to measure if it was worth it) only from business/work side - as an IT engineer and then a consultant, I got both asked to travel far (USA) and decided yo do so myself (UK, Australia).
Even moved countries a few times in pursuit of a good citizenship and a stellar career. It was difficult but I got there 100% (in some ways even 500%).
But along the way I neglected my love life entirely - for that, I never even had a serious conversation with any girl that might sincerely interest me.
Working with French speakers in Brussels helped, since they always include the private life in how they go about things - they were always supportive (even if I still am not fluent in French, that I could achieve within 6 months or a year - the culture and I already know very well, and I have quite a number of French speaking friends and generally good relations with them).
But, then - how far to travel for love - I haven't a clue as to what is enough, or too much, or how to measure what is or isn't worth it. No point of reference.
Let's say for work I'd know the costs, the effort required, what gets expected of me, the reward is generally discussed in advance, and I get to build my reputation/track record (or to very simply and without any anger explain why I am unable to or uninterested - they get those things very easily).
For love it is different, I presume - hopes are higher, and outcomes (marriage, pregnancy, life together) more important.
Has anyone navigated that successfully? Any tips?
I'd disagree that one should only stick to where they live - and there are no 'business managers' to arrange the initial stages - which is a bit different to the professional world, so - new to me.
