What does it mean when a guy says “he won’t share you”?

[Anonymous]

We are not in a relationship. Even though I think we have very strong feelings for each other. This is a red flag or is this love.

[Guy13]

When a guy says "he will not share you" THEN your radar should go up. I know it sounds like a compliment but if you will please pause and consider the following: I find this to be controlling claim.

"I am not going to share you". I know where you are, who you are with, will contact you at any moment and you will be available, and decide who you can and cannot see. I own you and will loan you out to those I feel comfortable having you around.

[spartan55]

How would it be love if you aren't in a relationship? You are pretty delusional.
He won't 'share you', but I will bet anything he would fuck other women. And you are just going along with it... smh.

[Billboshaggens]

It means he probably loves you and feels possessive. It might just be me but you might want to establish some boundaries, if you're so inclined. But it's your life

[BJP21]

he's territorial and very possessive. A HUGE red flag.

[Anonymous]

that's a really fucked up thing to say to someone that right there is control issues and red flag

[Anonymous]

It is a sign he could be very controlling.