It sounds like you're holding onto hope rather than dealing with reality. You aren't his ideal, and he's holding out for his ideal. Until he meets the girl of his dreams, he may spend time with you, but he will either jump ship and run when he finds her or will end up settling with you and resent that fact. It makes more sense to choose a partner who sees significant value in you as you are (not as you could or should be).
We all have preferences. Never expect everyone you see value in to see value in you. It's not a judgment call on you, but a statement of what they believe works best for them. I'm sure you've passed on options in the past, so you have done what he is doing. Unfortunately, by teasing you with a taste of something you see great value in, he's just using you and doing you a disservice. Always look at the big picture rather than just hold onto specific qualities you value. If you wouldn't want your daughter to settle for the existing big picture, don't do what you wouldn't want for her.
It could be because he likes the way things are and doesn't want them to change so if you want those things in your and it seems like he doesn't then you need to compromise and work out a solution together otherwise you won't be together in the Future.
A similar relationship happened to me with this guy I met at work and he chased after me. But all we ever were was friends with benefits and nothing more. So, after a while I realized it wasn't going anywhere, and broke it off with him.
Then one day he calls me at work and says he has something wrong with him, but he would never tell me what it was. I never found out either. Very strange.
Well either he doesn’t know himself, or he has an idea but it’s very hard/painful to let it out, or he knows the reason (s) but is not telling you for some reasons (hard truths are hard to tell and he wants to be ‘nice’ for example, or he doesn’t trust you enough or something like that..) could be anything :/
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He does not sound interested at this time.
He doesn't want to hurt your feelings with the truth, and doesn't want to lose you. But you should still move on, as him not wanting to lose you has more to do with him not wanting to look like he failed to string a woman along.
He's not that into you but he'll take some pussybif you're down. Or he's holding out hope for someone who is unavailable.
you are not good enough to be his wife.
he is clear and honest with you.
What do you want?
You're not enough for him.
He's no longer into you.
What question? Have you proposed to him? Because he’s not ready yet. If this is the case. Getting married is a big deal.
Odds are the truth would hurt you so he's staying silent. It sucks not getting a reason but no one owes us one either. The past is just that, keep focusing on it and you'll miss the present and future. Knowing won't change anything.
Why are you making a guy tell you twice you're not enough?
I'm certain you're worth more than that
Maybe he doesn't know. Men don't always use logic for everything, sometimes they feel their way too.
Maybe he's not seeing a side of you that says wife and mother.
Leave that guy simple as that … he’s only with you till he finds someone he feels he’s more compatible with.
What does it matter why? He told you he doesn't want it.
He's embarrassed to say he can't give you more than the 5 inches he has maybe?
He Could of been beaten up by a Bunch of Little kids and because of Trauma he Hates kids.
He’s not ready for it and can’t express his feelings very well
it just means he can't tell you
he's LITERALLY TELLING YOU
It means you're the fun girl. Next question.
He doesn't want the same
He’s wasting your time.
He's just not interested in you.
It means he's in the power position.
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