How do you protect yourself from getting hurt again after relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Sorrento-Sun]

You can't. There's no guarantees in love. No-one can guarantee they'll never hurt you or leave you.

People can change over time. They may habe genuinely loved you , but over time... their wants, needs and desires can change. When that happens, their feelings can start to change, so they fall out of love.

But learn lessons from past experiences. Use the pain as an opportunity to change parts of your personality and how respond and react to certain situations. This is important for personal growth. For example, I'm an empath so I tolerated far my than I should have in my last relationship, because I knew he had issues. So I overlooked a lot of his negative toxic behavior. Now, I won't tolerate certain behaviors. Being empathetic doesn't mean I have to stay or accept being treated unkindly or unfairly.

I believe it's best to live in the moment when you're in a relationship. Don't worry about what could happen, and don't judge someone new based on past expeirences. If you're not happy , work together to salvage the relationship. If it can't be salvaged together, walk away.

[Guy13]

Take 6 months to a year to heal and rebuild. Then go after it again.

[On_cloud_wine]

He’s not asking about healing.. he wants to prevent himself from getting hurt.

[Guy13]

@On_cloud_wine That is how you do it. recover from the last. Note the word Again...

[DailyLife]

Just don't care about anyone.. live your life your way

[Songomatic]

Get cats or Date serious people.