Is it normal for my boyfriend to still care about his ex it’s been 3 years?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years already.
Is it normal for him to still care about his ex? he says he does not want to be with her but that he still cares about her and what they been through in the past

[BarryLiverstone]

Maybe not ask as much about his ex and more about why is he only a boyfriend? After 3 years you know if you wanna get married or not right? I doubt his ex plays into that decision

[Asker]

Hey there , Yea we spoke about marriage and we are on the same page we don’t want that.

[BarryLiverstone]

If he’s not looking for an exclusive relationship then it makes more sense why he would wanna maintain the connection with another person. Hey there, why didn’t you wanna be his wife?

[ThomasDavid1989]

If it was his first, probably. You never forget your first, especially when it comes to virginity. But, if it's a 2nd or third, I would worry

[Asker]

Ahhh yea it’s his first

[ThomasDavid1989]

Yeah, i still think about my first

[Razp_Sorbet]

Yes it's normal to still care about someone you once had a deep connection with.

[In_Trance]

no. Dump him. why TF would you even get involved in that

[MissHope]

I guess he is not over her yet.