got friend-zoned by a guy i really like a few months ago but I'm still not over it. we hang out in the bus all the time and i love spending time with him and is the only time he really talks to me. in school, we have got separate friend groups so we go our separate ways. recently he blocked me cos apparently I spammed him to much and ig i overreacted cos the next day i went to the bus stop but then changed my mind and went back home to go by car. he unblocked me to call me cos of that so i blocked him. in school eventually at lunch he came over and asked for a truce and I agreed so now we are good ig and we aren't blocked.
i asked him if we wanted to hang out in the holidays in a friend way ofc (i don't think he knows i still like him) and he said no cos otherwise we will be shipped together by our friends etc
ik he doesn't like me in any more than a friend way but I think that I care about our friendship more than he does and ig that hurts. he doesn't even want to hang out outside of school as friends? and we have been friends for years!
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I'm sorry that you're going through this, he sounds like a douchebag to be honest. I dont see anything wrong with you hanging out as friends, unless he's embarrassed or he doesn't want them to get the wrong idea. Which all of this in my opinion means that he doesn't deserve to be apart of your life. If he knows that you like him (usually they can get hints) and he's still treating you like this, he's not the right guy for you. He doesn't sound like he appreciates your friendship.
The best thing to do is make friends with someone else and forget about him. It will be hard and it will feel like you're unable to sometimes, but, you will move on and things will get better for you. The good thing about life is, everything is temporary.
First, sorry about this. That sucks.
You deal with it by taking one day at a time. By hanging with your friend group. By spending what time you can with him and enjoying whatever that is. But also by deliberately finding things that bring you pleasure and doing those.
Well sounds harsh but don't accept the friend zone then. He doesn't wanna date you? Stop being friends with him.