Why are women with more experience less successful at marriage?

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D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I know the stats are more than 10 in the body count and they're 75% more likely to end a relationship in divorce or cheat. Whereas the men are probably more likely to remain loyal with a high body count. I don't know why that is. I'm not an expert on it. My guess is a guy that couldn't get laid just has more wanderlust that a guy that's been there and done that.

As for the women... they seem to get 'alpha widowed' pretty quick. The best qualities of the dude they were with get held against the new guy. Add more guys in the mix and now you have a bunch of great qualities to compete against from so many guys that... you can't really compete with a damn football team, if you know what I'm saying. There is this point where you're just not going to win the fight to outdo that many other men from her past. You might win at being big and buff, but you'll never be sensitive enough or as caring... whatever the flaw... you'll get judged for it against some dude you don't even know that did it better than you.

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

They can toss things aside and have a track record of doing it. YOu got to be crazy getting involved with a divorce woman... at least for me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Many experienced women have been branded as "promiscuous" and, therefore, become less-and-less desirable to most men, especially "conservative" ones.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Because body count negatively impacts marital satisfaction, and that is true for both men and women.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

Because if you are truly too committed to a career for marriage, then you're too committed for the responsibility of sex as well, period.

But far too many want to have their cake and eat it too. So they treat garbage shows like Sex and the City as wise life advice, when it's really not. This teaches them to view men not as a calling from God to give direction and definition to a portion of their net overall purpose in life, but to view men as a disposable commodity.

If you get bored with a dress, it goes to Goodwill, and you pick out another one. Shallow women view men the same way. To their peril.

That, and the rigors of workplace responsibility make maintenance of a stable home life very difficult. A female manager of a store, especially a small one, has to be practically a mother to all her new recruits. Being an actual mother on top of it is almost too much. This is a similar strain on the man. Though, he's expected biologically to balance both worlds. When the wife tries to play the same game, the home gets neglected. Someone's gotta give. If she won't, he must. If she insists neither change, the home will fall into neglect. And both will pay the price.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not sure whether by experience you are referring to sexual experience or relationship experience, so I will address both.

A woman with more sexual experience is less able to successfully and permanently pair bond with her husband. Statistics show women who were promiscuous before marriage are less likely to be happy in marriage and more likely to cheat and to divorce their husbands.

When a woman has a lot of relationship experience, it means, by definition, that she has a lot of failed relationship experience, and she is the common denominator in all of those failed relationships. That doesn't speak to the reasons behind her multiple failed relationships, but it's impossible to ignore the fact that she has a bad track record, and the past is the best predictor of the future.

DermalPunch · Answer

The correct answer is both. An experienced woman does not necessarily have a high body count.

She may have been married for 20 years. If we are talking sexual experience.

Promiscuity is harmful but more so for women. It goes against our biology, emotions and psyche.

Men don't get damaged by sleeping with tins of women. They get harmed by getting hurt emotionally. They are not as resilient in this area.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you talking sexual experience or relationship experience?

It's a proven fact that the more sexual partners a woman has had, the less capable she we be of pair bonding with one man.

If a woman has had a lot of relationships, it means she has had a lot of failed relationships, and she is the common denominator in that scenario.

Anonymous · Answer

Because the higher your body count, the more crazy you will seem to others.

And this applies to both men and women. Im tired of the double standard of body count only mattering for women. A guy who has a high body count is also less desirable.

Gibbons44 · Answer

Body count equals not experience.

If she consumated marriage previously, chances are she's still tied down into it. Disclaimer: I never consumated marriage previously so can't tell you how it changes feelings.

Wade12345 · Answer

Lol. Read the Law and Prophets in the Bible. If she isn't a virgin at marriage (or a qualified widow) then there's a good chance she's a whore instead.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Can we see some article or evidence?

WhitneySnow · Answer

Experience at what?

Anonymous · Answer

Pulling more BS out of your ass, I see.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they don’t put up with bs anymore

melanieeeB · Answer

Who says that? Lol

Agape93 · Answer

Source?

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