My life is falling apart even when I try my best to find a job, to stay positive. My friends easily find a job, they have great family support. Why?

[Deimy]

[coachTanthony]

Change your mindset. Your life isn't falling apart your life has an abundance of opportunities to grow. Taking what life throws at you as a challenge is what life is all about. You don't have to stay positive just focus on what's important. Do I need to brush up on my interview skills? Do I need a new resume? Should I grab some books on the subject? Your friends may have skills you don't. Just because they did doesn't mean you should automatically. Need to adapt and get better.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

This

[Deimy]

Well my friend have less skills cause I have more practise than them and speak 5 languages

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@Deimy But you can't spell practice, so what does that tell you? Lol, just kidding

[coachTanthony]

@Deimy My answer still stands. You need some serious self awareness. Someone who posts a question like this but states but IT'S NOT ME LOOK I SPEAK 5 LANGUAGES is really not looking for any help. You aren't getting the job for a reason. Stating you speak 5 languages doesn't solve that.

[Guy13]

Sorry to hear that, I hope it turns around for you. I really don't have a clue what to say...

[Sour-rose]

What do I know but you're being tested. Tested in wtf you gonna do about this? You gonna give up or keep trying. Why? Because you could stay where you are or do something different about it.

Everyone will feel this way, but it all depends on how they change their outlook and situation. So now, I think it's just about your turn.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Don't look at others. You can't stay positive if you do that.

[Alex8736]

hence the reason i dont use social media

[Ms_Facesitter]

I don't use it because people share stupid stuff or depressing stuff.

[pethouse]

If you need a job asap go to a temp agency, no background check or anything you just sign up, but do NOT make friends, my job use’s a temp agency and most of them are moody, mental, bums, or drug addicts, some times all the above! When they send you out to different job sites they will notice that your normal and possibly try to hire you!

[Mayo503]

Wow… sorry to hear that 😞

what job you looking for …?

why isn’t your family supporting you…?

all you can do is keep trying…

keep your head up you can do it

[Zayed_]

Its like you’re asking why does the sun have a specific distance from earth, this is life and I hope the best for you

[AngryCarl2]

"When you're going through hell, keep going." - Sir Winston Churchill

[LazerBean]

A crappy romantic life is potent and can easily ruin a life.

[Anonymous]

The five people you’re around most - you’ll be like them. Also comparing yourself to others is just putting your own self down.

[TallAnon]

Luck of the draw