If you were to die today, who do you think would spend the longest at your grave?

[ariadneR]

My partner, then my brothers and dad.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont mind being cremated but for the sake of the question, no one really. Thats not to say they didn't love me, but we don’t go to people graves like that. Everyone i know even in the extended fam will visit someones grave the day of the funeral and then only on birthdays/death anniversarys to talk and lay a rose down. I personally dont visit the graves even on the day of the death. My mom will blow a kiss or something when she drives past a graveyard where someone she knows is. But yea dats about it. Now in terms of talking about someone who died (rather than visiting), certainly weekly. My family still talk about fun memories with my great grandparents and others who have died. But no one just goes over there

[jennifer_bloom]

Maybe my friends or cousins. My parents are angry at me every hour they are awake.

[Nik1hil]

I hope no one!..

I want the world to move on, like nothing happened!.

I want them to abandon my skin and bones and go cherish the time they have with people are alive!..

If i had a tombstone my epitaph would be, "Don't stand here and mourn me you moron, go love someone alive, I didn't had a lover until i was 27yr old. Don't let someone else suffer like I did."

[Nik1hil]

Thanks for the MHO

[Guy13]

My Mother and my woman would spend the longest time at and maintaining my grave site.

[Rosexøxø]

Lol someone said they didn’t want a grave…

yeah, me neither! They better bury me with a broom. 🧹 If they keep walking back and forth upstairs, I’m gonna take it and start banging, so they will quiet it down.

I’m supposed to be ‘resting in peace!’

“sheesh… finally-

some peace and QUIET.”

Lol

[Rosexøxø]

Always that one noisy neighbor. You know what I’m talking about… and if you don’t know one, you’re probably that neighbor! 😳😂 (jk probably neighbors with luck).

Also in all seriousness- nobody would spend time at my grave because it’s not possible unless they’re dead lol

They have to go work and eat and all that.

I’m the one who can spend some time lol

Also no one ever loved me that much. I may find my mom once or twice, and my only regret would be leaving her.

“I love you mom.” Forever and Always 💫🌸♥️ 💎💫

[Genie23]

My last partner. We both loved each other deeply

[OfMiceandMen]

My daughter. I would be buried next to my wife that passed away 10 years ago, so she could visit us both and know we are together now. My parents and brother too.

[Sour-rose]

Dad. He has told me if I were to die before him, he's done with this world. that same day I died. Mother of course but he would be with me forever

[Rosexøxø]

I wish my dad was like this, but at the same time that is so phenomenally sad. I’d hope he’d be more close to my mom, so they can live together and not be sad, but I suppose he keeps you going in the meanwhile for that one sense. That probably keeps him going too, especially since you’re young.

Children do give us a sense of hope.. it’s true. Not just bundles of joy, but ounces of hope. ✨💯✨💯🌸

[Sour-rose]

Absolutely agreed <3

[Jennz6]

My parents and my sister have already passed away and I don’t have a lot of really close friends, so I’m not really sure if anyone is going to spend time at my grave. It doesn’t bother me either because I won’t be here either.

[Rosexøxø]

I wouldn’t be at anyone’s grave Jen, but I know a good handful will have to miss someone as kind as you.

I’d miss you a ton Jen, if I knew you died.

SO DONT. 😃☺️✨💯✨💯

[abc3643]

No one because I won't have a grave... and that's the plan because I don't want a grave and be not-visited.

[Rosexøxø]

Lol you truly want to Rest In Peace 😆

[NathanDavis]

my cats... because I have not given them dinner, yet...

[Agape93]

My best friend. At least long enough to scatter my ashes or drop my body somewhere

[madamblack]

Nobody. Bcz everybody busy by their concern. I love somebody but just it. No one care so much me, I'm sense

[Rosexøxø]

I see you 🥺 and you are beautiful person ✨💯✨💯🌸☔️

[JosyJosy]

The same people as you... well, minus the siblings..

[elizamichale1]

Oh gosh thts scaryyyyyy

My older brother

2nd brother

Dad

Mum

[CreatingWonders]

No one as I have no one.


Probably won’t even be buried.


Probably be chucked on a heap somewhere and forgotten.

[Rosexøxø]

Honestly same. Hopefully we are found by good people who will have decency to lay us nicely on the side, like so with nature’s own-

Deer, bunnies, and skunks.

Lol I just described Bambi and his friends.

🦌 🐰 🦨

[Juxtapose]

My mom without contest. Nobody loves me like she does.

[Juxtapose]

Interesting how somebody thought this was funny.

[Rosexøxø]

Glad the like buttons are back lol but I think maybe they laughed because it made that much sense and was relatable.

Maybe that person has good memories with their mom and they laugh a lot. If not, maybe they only had bad memories, or no mom, so they scoffed. I don't know 🤷‍♀️

I liked your answer because I miss my mom very much. They ARE the only ones who truly love us. If yours is alive, please go hug her 🫂

And give her a thought of thanks and maybe even a word in doing so. ✨💯✨💯

Ty

[Juxtapose]

@Rosexøxø aww yeah I let her know like love her all the time. I hope I can find a woman one day who will love me I hope I can find a woman one day who will love me like she does ❤️

[Rosexøxø]

I hope you find her too ✨💞

There is just a pure wholesome and friendly bond between parents and kids. Varying greatly and in intensity at different moments of our lives.

Fingers crossed for you! 🤞

[LiamJHayden]

My grave will be the Pacific Ocean so lots of people.

[Rosexøxø]

Lol that’s smarttttt

But please

In good
Timing and nothing astoundingly crazy 🥺👐✨💯✨💯🌸☔️

[Anonymous]

Probably my dad, and only my dad. If he was still here.

[Rosexøxø]

I hope he shows you how to walk on stars and star dust ✨ 🪐💫

[Opinion Owner]

Ohh pleaseeee i love you😭💗

[Rosexøxø]

Sending all my love to you, sis 🫂✨🌸 continue to shine

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you lovee💖💖💖

[Tstrbrainer]

Idc, but probably I think people will just dump me somewhere and go party🤘😝🤘

[Rosexøxø]

You’d have SOME company I can tell ya that lol as would I

[Tstrbrainer]

Well, there would be other inhabitants in the graveyard, right?

[DaveJord]

My sister.

[iron_ninjs]

Probably my mom, then my dad. Then my best friend.

[douride2]

I'm sure it would be my only sister.

[melanieeeB]

My mom and sister

[Kelly6]

my son

[exitseven]

My wife.

[Guardian45]

Only Mom.

[Rosexøxø]

Say it again:

only Mom ✨💯✨💯

I miss my mom so much. I hope if your mom is still around, that you would hug her and embrace her. No warm and safe place like a mother’s arms

[Guardian45]

@Rosexøxø. Amen!

[Babygirl_S]

Mum and dad