What can I do to stop thinking about a friends with benefits who takes forever to reply back?

[Anonymous]

I know it’s not a real relationship but I feel so irritated. What can I do so I care less about him

[MaazHussain]

It can be difficult to stop thinking about someone you have feelings for, even if it's a casual relationship like friends with benefits. Here are a few suggestions that may help:

• Keep yourself busy: Find other activities or hobbies that you enjoy and focus on them. This will help you take your mind off of the person and the situation.
• Limit contact: If constant communication is causing you stress or anxiety, it may be helpful to limit contact with the person. This can mean reducing the frequency or duration of your interactions, or even cutting off contact altogether if necessary.
• Shift your focus: Try to shift your focus away from the person and towards yourself. Spend some time thinking about your goals and priorities, and consider how you can work towards them.
• Take care of yourself: Practice self-care and prioritize your own well-being. This can mean getting enough sleep, eating well, exercising, and engaging in activities that bring you joy.

Remember, it's important to take care of yourself and your emotional well-being. If the situation is causing you significant distress, it may be helpful to seek support from a trusted friend, family member, or mental health professional.

[Asker]

Thank you! Best comment here!

[MaazHussain]

Thanks

[Lycirian]

The thing is. First it is friends with benefits but this is in the beginning. If you get more and more intimate with someone, you obviously on some point start creating without wanting, feelings for this person. This is totally normal. But to building something on this kind of feelings will be backfire on you 99,9%. Just keep the distance or try to turn this to really dating him. But if you keep it doing that way then of course he will not say no.

[KathrynTaylor]

You’re in love with him. Sex clouds our senses. As women. I’ve been there done that. End things with him and stay single for a while.

[MzAsh]

Stop sleeping with him. Literally the ONLY way.

[Anonymous]

friends with benefits are only supposed to care for each others bodies... you may not be cut out for a friends with benefits "relationship". why are you irritated? he doesn't HAVE to respond or respond in a timely manner because he only values the sex part. what are you even texting him about? if it's about sex, then he may be wanting to see other people to get his sex fix.

[Asker]

Damn girl chilllll

[Opinion Owner]

i think you're the one who needs to chill LOL

[Asker]

Nah you just sound angry. You could’ve worded things nicer 😋

[Opinion Owner]

hm no.

[boggboss]

Stop treating it like anything more then a situation to get sex

[Anonymous]

What can you do to care less? Stop having sex with him.

[KrakenAttackin]

You can stop taking his hot D.