Really miss my friends with benefits but she stopped responding after over something really fickle. But she is still always checking up on me on IG?

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There was a younger girl who I had a discreet fling going on with a few months ago. It wasn’t just the sex but we time hanging out as well. I was very good to her when she came over my place. Made her dinner, massaged her shoulders and I even got her scented bath soap as a gift (it was cheap).

I was legitimately interested in what she was doing in her life and vice versa. But we both know and agreed that a relationship wasn’t going to happen. She’s 22 and I’m 39.

Anyway she got taken aback when I politely asked if she could make sure her legs were smooth for the 3rd time we hung out. She was nice and smooth the first time. But the second time she had some scruff (I didn’t say anything in person). I’m guessing she maybe went 5 days to a week without shaving.

I went down on her twice but second time was less enjoyable when I felt her legs with scruff run against my neck. She did trim her V thankfully. But given the effort I put into going downtown I don’t think it was unfair to ask her to go smooth. The request wasn’t brought up out of context. It was in a IG message planning our next meet up. It was a preference not a demand.

Anyway she got real pissed off when I said that. She read it but didn’t respond to my other two messages (which were friendly). This really pissed me off because I never asked her to do anything else but show up at my place.

The last time I tried to contact her was 5 weeks ago. However I noticed she has viewed all my IG stories and quickly liked and unliked a post I put up.

Is a 3rd message going to look needy/pathetic? I know I’m supposed to radio silence this and act like I don’t give a shit. But it’s obvious she’s still thinking of me.
Really miss my friends with benefits but she stopped responding after over something really fickle. But she is still always checking up on me on IG?
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