Is it ok to harbor feelings for someone you knew prior to relationship your currently in?

[Anonymous]

Yes, its ok

No, not ok

[Guy13]

To harbor feelings for another is not healthy to either you or him. Ultimately, you are simply hopping from rebound guy to rebound guy and so on.

[Twalli]

My girlfriend was 1 of 2 people I was considering. I asked my girlfriend first, the only reason why I am not dating the other girl (who did want to date me and probably will still want to if this relationship ever ends).

[Asker]

Do you still find yourself wondering if you choose the right girl? Or still thinking about the other one?

[genericname85]

i think its totally fine given 2 conditions are met:

1: you still love your current partner.

2: you do not act on your attraction to the other guy in any way shape or form.

[SnowedIn]

Deep in your mind? Unacted on? Yes.

[Jamie05rhs]

No.
https://youtu. be/L0MK7qz13bU

[Jamie05rhs]

https://youtu.be/L0MK7qz13bU

[rachel776]

yes we all do