So, does everyone want to be single now?

[Anonymous]

Women are afraid of men and don’t want anything to do with them. Men hate women for many reasons and don’t want anything to do with them. So….. does this mean no one wants a relationship nowadays? Has relationships stop becoming a thing for good?

[Jdjfjcjj]

Both women and men are still dating based on their biological imperative. Neither is incorrect, it is ingrained in each of us.

Women are all competing for the top men and how can they be ridiculed for this? Men get upset though and offer logical reasoning to the women who don't stand a chance getting the 20% of men that women only find find attractive by saying, clearly in the game of musical chairs, roughly 80% will be left standing so they shouldn't waste time, they should try and secure the next highest level man.

But women can't be blamed for the fact that the majority of men are worthless. They're emotional bitches, who can barely support themselves much less a family. Men say they want traditional women who are submissive, but many of them jump into relationships and don't know how to say No, can't make a decision, lead with their money (if they have some), and frankly can't be trust to lead.

So wheres the issue? Is the fringe part of feminism partly to blame? Yes. Is men not being able to garner respect from women because theyve become just as feminine as women to blame? Yes. But the biggest issue originated back in 2008 with the advent of social media. Facebook, gave women far more options to consider which has allowed them to question in greater frequency whether they're current guy is the best they can do or if the grass is greener elsewhere. And it's affected the lesser attractive guys who may have been considered before but now are competing with guys 100s if not 1000s of miles away.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Damn I forgot to include though that years later, many women who had they're hot girl summers now secure the boring but good provider, and roughly 7 years later (based on divorce statistics), find themselves miserable as they miss the men who made them wet, although generally were not good providers. But all good, they 50% from divorce.

[Anonymous]

I’m a 26 year old guy. And the only women who are suitable for marriage and relationships are in their 40s. My current girlfriend is 43years old. It’s sad, but I haven’t met a girl with as good qualities as women in her age range. I honestly think women mature faster in the adolescence period, but they stop. Men just continue mature. Like even right now. There’s this girl who works with me. She’s 27, and she likes me. But she’s a single mother, and she still goes to house parties. She even tells, she goes after crazy obsessive guys. And she’s been to jail. She even talks behind my back. Do you think I want that? Hell no. On the other hand, my girlfriend has her life together. And she’s super sweet and caring. And she has old school values I love ❤️

[Asker]

I’m 30, does that make me unsuitable for marriage? Also, I’ve never been in a relationship.
Never mind. I answered my own question 🤦‍♀️

[XHopelessRomanticX]

I don’t think people necessarily want to be single, I just don’t think people are approaching relationships with the same integrity previous generations had. People don’t court anymore. So many approach dating with the intention of having sex instead of the intention of finding a spouse. People are becoming more and more promiscuous while expecting the other half to remain virtuous.
People don’t focus on the family anymore either. So many women don’t want to be mothers and stay at home parents. And so many men don’t want to be fathers and providers for the home. People keep looking for the next best thing instead of being content with what they already have. They cheat, they lie, they lord money and sex over one another. Children are viewed as burdens instead of blessings. Pride gets in the way of humility; people want to be served but avoid serving others.

[Red-Blaze]

Dont take the net vocal minority as the public view
I dont think this as big as it may seem from online stuff, many just live get into relashinships all the time
I mean I know I do get a nice amount of wedding invites every year

[Leopard23]

It's not that they hate women it's just that a lot of women these days are bad investments. 50% divorce rate with 85% of divorces intiated by women who get financially rewarded from the fruits of their ex husband's labour with alimony, child support and the family home. The majority of cheating is done by women.

Imagine your a guy you spent 10-15 years with your wife working hard at some job you hate for her and your kids and she decides out of the blue she don't love you no more, gets the police to remove you from the property based on false charges of domestic abuse. A month after dumping you there's a new guy she "just met" living in your home with your wife and kids drinking your beer watching your TV. Meanwhile you lose half your stuff in the divorce, are still on the hook for the mortgage, paying extortionate alimony to your wife who makes good money, you can't see your kids because she wants maximum child support. You are living in a dingy one room apartment with debts and fees to pay she ran up. If you can't pay child support or alimony because say you lost your job it's jail for you. And to top it off she's bad mouthing you around town and to your kids, znd you can't even get a good woman to date because your broke ass is a bad prospect. I think to many up and coming young men have witnessed what happened to their daddies.

Then there's so many obese women and single mothers out there. Best for a young single guy to work on himself and prepare for the possibility that he can get a good woman.

[Guy13]

Sure... let us all be single together.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Pretty much on point. 'Relationshits' are becoming a thing where the juice just isn't worth the squeeze. I'd love to take the first 2 sentences you wrote and just expand on it, but I don't want to end up writing an entire book here.

Modern feminism & hookup culture... need I say more 😂 I'm listening to an article right now about how feminist lesbians are meeting in secret to avoid the trans women (biological males), from invading and trying to hook up with them.

It's hilarious... gay chicks trying to avoid dudes... Have dudes that just say they are a woman, just to get to talk to women. 🤡 We live in clown world. <--Perfect example of where modern feminism has gotten us. Now we have dudes trying to get in the women's bathrooms and play women's sports.

🤡🌏

[Leopard23]

Hoe the worm has turned for modern feminists lol

[SolitarySolace]

After my experience, absolutely. Just recently found that the girl i was seeing but am not anymore shared an image of two women cutting off a man’s head for international women’s day. After being constantly cheated on, and falsely accused, I definitely prefer to stay single. Women are too misandrist

[Christoff92]

Now in these days many steady couples aren't looking at each others personal and cultural traits. Apprently nobody wants to respect each other because of the facts of prejudicism. Less and less respect is present. So the answer depends on the individual 😀

[SpokenTruth]

I don't have much to add other than to say other than given the opportunity I am headed to Russia for permanent citizenship there not to date or to marry but to live in a country where there is no system setup for men to be falsely accused for profits. Women can stay behind and hate all they want. I'll be in a country where men can have a little dignity and respect and never look back.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I never wanted to be single. I just know that unless someone else makes a move that the odds of me being accepted are too low. It's like an experiment where a squirrel is supposed to press a button and get either a nut or an electric shock. Eventually, all it gets is shocked. I'm that squirrel, I only get electric shocks.

[notwoke]

men have the physical drive for sex but modern culture has made women undesireable:

Feminist attitudes

Mostly fat

looking to be offended any way they can

gold digging

if you get married, legally your screwed

Play the sexism card any time they don't get their way

[LazerBean]

It seems to me like very few people truly wants to be single, and 90% at least of the people who claim that they want to be single for life do so as a defense mechanism.

[CelestialDaisy]

Yeah I’ve noticed it too, lots of people are still getting into relationships I think but are way more cautious and happy to stay single, sometimes for good reasons…

[Molly1997]

not for me not at all. It’s always been super easy to get into relationships and every man I’ve met has been so kind and caring. I love men.

[serious]

Yes that is a good observation you made. People who are single they have their reasons for being single by choice.

[LiamJHayden]

Some women and men are that way, but not all, and a gentle caring person can often convince one of the former to consider changing his or her mind.

[Still-alive]

well the online dating world seems to make things more difficult for people. especially places like tinder

[Anonymous]

Most people don't want to be single. They just say that as a "cop-out."

[Gagname]

https://youtu.be/VYPSTj28p24

[Mansearching]

I'm happy in the relationship I'm in. We have our ups and downs. Just like ev1 else.

[Echosoul]

I'm not single because I want to be, but lack of options. Women my age feel like a rare species in my area.

[Anonymous]

Sure... So many expectations & so many demands growing from both gender's end. Modern days relationships depends on " Give & Take policies". Living as a single is far better options.

[Maninderdeepsharma]

I swear to God I am single since childhood and I am very happy.

[Anonymous]

No I just don’t seem to meet anyone that’s interested, I’ve never been single by choice, it just never happens

[Anonymous]

Women are out here catching dicks like it was the last water bottle in the desert. That’s why no man wants them

[Chthou95]

There's a difference between hating and just being fed up

[slatyb]

I don't like being single.

[Adogdog]

I am open for a relationship.

[domenico07]

Fuck dating. Im happy by myself

[Anonymous]

Yeah, FWBs is the way to go.