when I was growing up, love was everything and everything was for love. and nowdays I don't see that happening. everybody is single. aren't you lonely? is this because men become feminine and women become like masculine? all I see is transgenders
Not at all, I'm not single, I'm happily married. I'm very happy with my wife and family. It could be in part because of what you mentioned, though more likely because there's less pressure to bind people together whether it's in traditional or unconventional relationships.
It's very easy to not have kids, and to get of a relationship with children, whether it's for the men or women in those relationships. There would be very little pressure for me to stay in my relationship if it were not for my family, but more of the whim of being happy day to day. Like I wouldn't have gotten married if I wasn't going to have kids, so property wouldn't be a concern, it would just be under my name.
Call it cynical if you want, but when there are few reasons for people to stay together, vested interests if you will, then it only takes a slight breeze to separate them rather than a large storm. Certainly most gay relationships are ones of convenience, with little binding power. My cousin can't walk away from his husband though, he wouldn't own anything and hasn't worked in years, hell, he can't even cook.
Some people will pursue casual because it is easier to go after then ever before now. Some people will double down on responsibility. Certainly those who want more traditional relationships will have a rougher road finding partners at the very least though.
I've had relationships, some pretty long term, but I am single by choice, now.
I've learned that it's better to be lonely, than to go through the pain of betrayal again. My last relationship nearly killed me, both figuratively, and literally. I'd still like to find love, someday, but it's honestly not worth the risk of going through that again.
So I will gladly take lonliness, at this point. It's better than the alternative. It's safer.
Opinion
5Opinion
I'd rather be single and alone than in a relationship and alone.
Understand?
I'm at a point in my life that I'll give all I am. But that doesn't come without a price. And that price is not worth most women paying apparently. So... it's all good. No, I'm not lonely. Because I've got people in my life who care about me. And that's enough. If God wants me not to be single he will put the right woman in my life for me. Till then I accept that he feels I serve him best single. 🙂
Well I can assure you the LGBTQ isn't helping but that's not the only problem, morals is hard to find nowadays and it seems to be getting worse
Yes- what else would we be? But we find what happiness we can in other things.
Sounds like you're just looking to get mad at something based off of your own biases and prejudices.
Feminism, social media, and dating apps ruined women.
Me.. no
You can also add your opinion below!
