Is everything ok when you ask a wife that , " Do you see a future with me?" She gets angry and say if I don't trust her we should breakup?

[Anonymous]

Obviously there are some things that made me ask the question. She's like a pain relationshipwise in my life these days.

[LazerBean]

If you're married then it's stupid to ask questions like that. Those are dating questions.

[Asker]

Okay I get it

[Anonymous]

You’re married? Then why would you ask if she sees a future with you? That’s for when you’re just dating or boyfriend/girlfriend...

[Asker]

So that means it my bad

[Opinion Owner]

I just don’t think you’re asking the right question. If she’s being a pain or acting weird, you want to ask things like if she’s happy. Have a serious conversation about how you’re feeling and vice versa.

[Asker]

We can't have a serious conversation, whenever we go into serious conversation, she can't handle it becomes drama and argument

[Opinion Owner]

Then that’s a problem. Have you thought of marriage counseling?