Is it a good idea to have a 2 week break from a long term relationship?

[Anonymous]

Been together 4 years but I’ve been feeling detached and disappointed in him so much already. I love him that’s why it’s so hard to leave but I don’t feel like we’re compatible. I want to spend this time apart to think if I really still want this relationship and if it can bring us closer together.

Yes, it can help relationship

No, it breaks the relationship apart even more

[Sunssong]

It doesn't workGirls usually try this... Never have a seen it save a relationship.

The problem is you're thinking. You're focusing on all things you don't like; so ofc you aren't happy. That's why you feel detached and disappointed however...

If you want to save it... You both need to sit down together, with open minds, and create a joint vision. A vision for your relationship. How you want it to be and how you want life to be. If you can't get on the same page about the joint-vision... break upIf I was there I could guide you and show you how it's done. But you make the vision and then you have to start working in harmony with it and with each other. You do that by altering your conditioning. I assure you if you decide to break up with him it is because the inner workings of your subconscious heavily influenced you to do it. Whatever is wrong can be fixed but you both have to want it to be fixed; and I don't mean just consciously. You have to feel it on a subconscious level or you're not ready. Because it controls all.

[Guy13]

Sometimes, there are the first steps in breaking up and/or strengthening the relationship. Sometimes, 2 weeks to a month is enough time to see how one really feels. If they are happier with freedom or in the relationship. It is definitely a tipping point.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you need to take a break from them, the relationship is already dead.
The right person is the comfort you need in the worst of times.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Breaks are a waste of time. Either fix it now or end it.

[RohitLakra]

It's a good idea. I should try it out too

[Anonymous]

Expiry date already over for this relationship...