So my boyfriend always calls me a liar because to him I lie about a lot of things. Well I just found out he lied about something so small. He told me a long time ago he got his car from out of state. But on the back of his car he has the name of a used car dealership and the name is placed on all the cars from the dealership. I know this is a weird petty lie but could this also indicate he's lying about other things?
It's understandable to feel upset or confused when you catch someone in a lie, no matter how small it may seem. However, before confronting your boyfriend, it's important to take some time to process your thoughts and feelings. Ask yourself why this lie bothers you and what you hope to achieve by bringing it up with your boyfriend.
If you do decide to confront your boyfriend, try to approach the conversation in a calm and non-accusatory manner. Avoid getting defensive or attacking him, as this can lead to a more negative outcome. Instead, focus on expressing how you feel and why the lie upset you.
It's also important to consider whether this small lie is part of a larger pattern of dishonesty in your relationship. If you feel like your boyfriend is consistently lying to you about important things, it may be worth having a more serious conversation about trust and honesty in your relationship.
Here's an example of how you could confront your boyfriend about the small lie you discovered:
"Hey, can we talk about something that's been on my mind? I noticed that on the back of your car, there's the name of a used car dealership. But a while ago, you told me that you got your car from out of state. It's not a big deal, but I feel a little confused and unsure why you would say that. It's important to me that we have open and honest communication, so I just wanted to bring it up and clear the air. Can you explain to me why you said that?"
By approaching the conversation calmly and without accusing him of anything, you give your boyfriend the opportunity to explain his side and hopefully clear up any misunderstandings. Remember to listen actively to his response and try to understand his perspective.
u You are assuming that he purchased the car from that dealer because their name is on the car, but he could be the second or third buyer downstream from that dealer.
It happens tell him you know you’re not mad but honesty is the most important thing. Please always tell me the truth not what you think I want to hear!
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Degree of lying is made up...
Yes confront. You both lie to each other
Can you say petty?
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