I have to ask. Are people really concerned about age gaps in their relationship or in other people's relationships?

[PointTaken]

Maybe not just relationships but also sex. Maybe friends with benefits or hook ups.

[Finchie40]

You are my age , and let me tell you, age really means shit to be honest , what matters is the chemistry and connection and yes attraction as well but the chemistry and connection is what matters most , I have dated girls older and younger than me that had great connection with me , some of the younger girls I dated were way more mature than girls my age or older , so again I don’t really hold age as a deciding factor when I meet a beautiful girl that connects with me the same , All that matters is you want each other , Now if a girl is underage then yes that’s where I draw the line but I have met some underage girls that were like 16 and 17 that had great chemistry and connection , I would just tell her to wait til she’s 18 and then hit me up lol

[PointTaken]

I agree. Underage is definitely a no. Chemistry is the key to any relationship.

[Anonymous]

Some people may feel that age differences can lead to power imbalances or unequal dynamics in a relationship, while others may not see it as an issue. There may also be social or cultural factors at play that influence people's opinions on age gaps. Ultimately, it's up to each individual to determine what they feel comfortable with and to communicate their boundaries and expectations with their partner or potential partner. It's important to prioritize mutual respect, consent, and communication in all relationships and sexual encounters, regardless of age differences.

[Anonymous]

As long as it’s legal, I don’t have a problem with any age gaps. I think big age differences are weird if you are actively dating and planning to spend your life with this person, as you’ll miss out on a lot of shared firsts and experiences, but sexual intercourse can be done with anyone.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Romantic love is legal everywhere. It just can’t be put in laws. Sex can be done with anyone, except prepubescent ones.

[Opinion Owner]

I do not support the lusting for (it is not love) and sexual abuse of minors. Please do not use my words to support that.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

No, I 100% agree with You. Just thought to add to it in my opinion. I also am against lusting and find it different from love. Reread my post.

[mandyfire98]

I'm not for the most part as long as everything is legal of course. I actually lean towards older guys as far as age gaps go.

[Avicenna]

In real life, most people don’t care, but it’s a good excuse to say you don’t like someone dating your friend or relative

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Good excuse means acceptable, or would fool one easily? I doubt it can be a good excuse.

[Avicenna]

@HippieVeganJewslim: No, I’m saying that some people are using it as a reason to get people to break up when they dislike the much younger or older partner for other reasons.

[Ben487]

I don't care about age gaps. Just like I don't care about gay or lesbian relationships. It doesn't effect me. The only time it would bother me is if I had a daughter and she was like 18-21 and wanted to see a much older man. I would find that bothersome.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Nu, that type of daughter is adult, so she should be allowed to make her own decisions.

[AsaKyo]

If it's 14 and 22? Yeah
If it's 16 and 25? Yeah
If it's 18 and 45? Yeah
If it's 30 and 40? Not really

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Age is a number. Love is love. I’m only concerned about sex with prepubescent ones or sex with the high risk of STIs.

[najekim]

Nope. Our youngest playmates are 25 years younger than us and 10 years older going the other way.

[Jennz6]

No big deal unless they are under the legal age

[Danael31]

In my opinion, people should be with people their age. Otherwise, it makes me uncomfortable. MUCH.

[Nikki1989]

Not an issue with me.

[dean53AU]

I'm not but seems to be a few here that do..

[Pterodon]

I couldn’t care less