And they're actively flirting, touching the other person? Insinuating they want to have sex with them etc?
Yes, first off, if they say they aren’t taken to that person when they are, that’s says they want to connect with the next person.
Secondly, if they are giving the person the idea, by touching or in words. That is a betrayal of trust from the first partner. Weather the other person acts in response or not it still (again) shows that their heart is not 100% with the first boyfriend / girlfriend.
Speaking as someone that has been through it, one of the most painful experiences I ever had was literally catching my (now ex) girlfriend having sex with another guy in the back of a car.
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Yep It's cheating. If you wouldn't do it in front of your boyfriend it's cheating. So that behavior is cheating. Purposely choosing not to disclose that you're in a relationship when you know you should is cheating. Cheating is about deception.
What were you doing? You know you can tell the person off yourself. Just say "yeah well he's taken" or "hi Suzanne! I see you've met my boyfriend!" or "i knew my sweetheart would get famously along with you, now stop flirting, Suzy" and wrap a possessive arm over their shoulders or something.
It’s leaving out information definitely, but it is not cheating it’s a red flag but I wouldn’t jump to conclusions because he may have thought it was already known some people are just clueless sometimes they don’t pick up on things
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No, but I grant that my marriage has a uniquely high level of trust and the rare circunstance that my wife has never been with anyone else so it would be a huge leap.
I should say she had a high school sweetheart but they never had sex and I am as certain as one could be about that.Anything that they can't do in front of the partner is 100% cheating. Yes that would be the end of the relationship.
Based on the details of your question. Cheating all the way.
It comes close and it is not an acceptable behavior, but it is not cheating, either. Cheating for me starts from a kiss on the lips or more.
Yes because you are being decieveful, why are you hiding it if it's supposedly nothing wrong?
Because people are azz holes... the greed in them dont let them do good to others... They always want to keep. options...
They are just canoodling, you should get them a room let’s see what happens.
Yes, this is cheating in my book
It all comes down to intent. And they know if they're doing it deliberately.
You're wrong, that is not your partner. They are not in an exclusive relationship with you.
Yes, why would you lie about that?
Is paying for a happy ending cheating if I don't tell my girlfriend?
Yes, that is cheating.
Yes I would consider all of that as cheating.
Likely to cheat down the line
Obviously.
Yes.
Definitely
Yes, I would
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