I dont know what to do?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend who I’ve been with for a few months now I would ask her for pictures of her nothing explicit just her face but she would always say that I needed a reason (though I have seen her face before it was just by accident and she doesn't even know she showed me her face) but I found out that she sent picture of herself like face picks a pic of her thighs to her guy friend who she hasn’t even known for a whole month and I don’t know what to do

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I confronted her about it and she said Every time I go to send a photo of myself my mind and body won't let me, I've tried so many times to send a photo but my body just stops and won't move, I don't know if it's my anxiety or ADHD, but I can't, my body won't physically let me. And when Ray asked I thought that, you know, it'll probably be the same, but before I could even look I already sent it, I have tried so many times but I can't, I physically can't. I'm sorry.

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Found out she has been lying about a lot of important stuff and now I feel like I can’t trust a single word she says worst part is I didn’t find out from her but her mother so I don’t know what I’m going to do from here but ending things just seems like the best option

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you feel hurt and confused by your girlfriend's behavior. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with her about your feelings and concerns, and to try to understand her perspective.

It may be helpful to have a calm and honest conversation with your girlfriend about why she was willing to send pictures to her guy friend but not to you. It's possible that she has concerns or reservations about sharing pictures with you for personal or emotional reasons, or that she simply feels more comfortable with her guy friend.

It's important to approach the conversation with empathy and understanding, and to try to find a solution that works for both of you. If you find that your girlfriend is consistently dishonest or unfaithful, it may be necessary to reevaluate the relationship and to prioritize your own emotional well-being and happiness. It may also be helpful to seek the guidance of a therapist or counselor who can provide support and guidance on how to navigate these challenges in a healthy and constructive way.

[Paulgautier12]

Bro. I see that you care about her and you seem like a good dude. Don't waste your time and leave her for the guy friend (that maybe he's more than a friend).

At first I thought she might be insecure or she's doesn't like to take pictures, but when I saw that the friend is getting the boyfriend treatment, dude! It will be a painful experience in the future if you don't cut this shit now.

Please don't listen to your heart and move on, or else if you're looking just for fun and nothing serious you can keep her and Don't make it a big deal.

[Asker]

Ok I’ll try

[Asker]

Is there really nothing I can do

[CarolinaJones]

I'm sorry to tell you this but she isn't interested in you. She has feelings for the other guy.

[Anonymous]

It won't last. Just enjoy it while you can. Stop trying to fix everything that's wrong. Just enjoy it. It won't last. You're under 18 and you have no clue what you're doing. Just enjoy it and learn from it all. Wish I would have done that. You're trying to change something you don't understand. Just enjoy your relationship and learn some things about girls from it. That's about all it's good for.

[noohair]

You have learned that it is a woman's prerogative to change her mind. It will not change, you have to decide what you are willing to deal with. You are young, your whole life is in front of you. I don't have any friends left from that part of my life.

[In_Trance]

Dump her