Why I feel strong attraction to Religious spiritual men and men with strong morals and values as compare to non serious, non religious people?

[Anonymous]

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I hate people who are away from religion, don't worship and who don't know right from wrong.

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I am not so religious, but after my heart break i became more religious and attracted to such men because their presence become soothing for me now as i faced very painful heartbreak.

[Rizwan_khan]

It always happen. When you have heart break. I'm also a not big relegious person but after my heart break i get more relegious. From child hood I'm bit relegious person. Heart break close to my allah more.

[Asker]

Exactly.

[Summeroflove]

Probably because you’re a good woman with good morals yourself. You see something in then that other men don’t have.


I assume you’re religious? Definitely not a bad thing.

[Asker]

Yes 🙂

[Summeroflove]

Yeah nothing wrong with you

[Asker]

🙂🙂🙂

[Spade_01]

It's a natural inclination to what goodness we have been blessed with. For Qur'an says in it's surah number 24, Ayah number 26: 'Vile women are for vile men, and vile men are for vile women; and good women are for good men, and good men are for good women. Those are free from what they (the accusers) say. For them there is forgiveness, and a graceful provision.'

Being able to follow religion at this day and age shows spine and rigidity. Being irreligious is like not even being able to your creator, how can they be loyal to its creation? That being said, being religious also defines a person's moral and ethics. While we have other religions bowing down to constant changes, innovations to cater to the increasing liberalism and immorality, Islam stays firm and strong so do its followers. Also, as far as deriving morals from a religion is concerned, what is prohibited in a religion might be worship in other religions. For example, drinking, dancing and yes *rape*.

[Asker]

I am not so religious, but after my heart break i became more religious and attracted to such men because their presence become soothing for me now as i faced very painful heartbreak.

[Spade_01]

Same. I wasn't too religious either. Did a lot of stuff before getting my brain in place but didn't feel a very strong heartbreak. But i later realised that indulging in all this is just a result of acting on misplaced priorities due to lack of religious knowledge or acting upon it. I don't know about other religions much because they justify almost everything. Islam however gives a perfect balance of loyalty, security, respect and love which ideally shouldn't exceed the love for god.

Among many things that helped me come to religion was a sentence I read somewhere in which اللہ said 'if you love anyone more than me, you'll be forced to live without them'. That hit hard but was just the truth nevertheless.

As far as matters of love and romance are concerned, I'm convinced after looking at everything that true blessing lies in marriage under shariah that even God loves when the couple is filled with love.

[Asker]

Agree, exactly

[Lionman95]

Because those guys show a back bone in their behavior more clearly. They have clear rules and limits of what they do and what not.
It´s easier to figure out what they´re up to and therefore might give you a feeling of security.

[Asker]

Exactly this is the reason

[Asker]

I will select your answer as most helpful.

[Lionman95]

Thanks. I´m glad I could help you.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're attracted to bad, but trying out good for a change. This is common after a lot of bad boys and emotional fatigue sets in. But it's likely your true attraction only lies in the non spiritual and non serious...

[AngryCarl2]

Just because I'm irreligious doesn't mean I don't have strong moral values. I find it easier to believe in doing the right thing than to believe in God.

[SawerBrown]

There's nothing wrong eith thar. Why do you feel it's not s good thing?

[KrisKris81]

I would say because that is your type

[Asker]

I think because i feel so connected to them.

[Anonymous]

Because you know they stand for something larger than themselves.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Because you're self righteous

[Asker]

Not so true

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, I was kidding

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Its pretty normal to lean towards people with the same beliefs and world views

[Asker]

Might be.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Can I have my like back? 🥺