Am I just crazy or has this happened to others?

[Anonymous]

The first time I had a miscarriage I was wearing these red shorts and black tank top , when we went to the hospital and found out I wasn’t pregnant and could have happened few weeks ago and the second time it happened I went to sleep wearing the same thing and woke up to lots of blood from a miscarriage.

The difference between the two times

, one I was in a happy and healthy relationship, loved him , his family liked me , lived with him and life was fine and good. He didn’t blame me saying it was my fault for doing things he said I probably shouldn’t have.

This time , we don’t live together anymore, I love him he hates me and his family hates me for some stupid sh*t ( his grandma things I sold her family heirloom when we first broke up , but he why would I loved him. I didn’t yell and be stressed at my mom for not seeing and contact me in 6 years. I now hate him for his childish behavior, says he was only back together with me for the baby and now there is no baby doesn’t talk to me and can’t prove he said it was just for the baby. Had his friends text me asking for proof , but like if you aren’t gonna talk to me then you lost your rights to demand anything and can go f*ck yourself.

I can’t help it I have pcos and it’s harder for pregnancy, but I’m sorry I’m just not gonna not have sex for the whole 9 months because your overly worried, my doctor said it was okay to do

Crazy

Normal

Had happened to me before

Other

[Summeroflove]

Things are crazy right now. Miscarrying isn’t your fault if you did all you could to care for your baby and yourself.



Seems like this is a heartbreaking time in your life and they’re making it worse. But be glad you’re broke up. I think he shown his true colors and his family too.

[Asker]

Of course I did all I could and more , I know people and his sister the first time said it’s okay to carry heavy stuff. But I stopped doing that all together. The first time before I actually knew I was I worked at BJ’s in the bakery. I was caring, heavy, frozen boxes of bread and bagels and I carried an AC up the stairs and that’s how I blame it myself the first time no one blamed me but myself that time, I didn’t carry anything heavy me and him did Instacart together and he would carry the water boxes that were heavy or anything really I would get there and pick up the milk and the eggs in the cereal I can pick up the light stuff. Yes. Because apparently our bloods aren’t good together I need this extra work done and because of my low iron I need all that. So I done more then ever did the first two times so I don’t know where he gets that from. I did tell him that I think I dodged a bullet by him blocking me because his excuse of when he wants to break up as we don’t work, we don’t work well.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t think it’s your fault. It happens. It sucks. I’m sure you’re heartbroken. If they don’t like you. Fine. Just leave you alone…. Why do they feel the need to harass you if they hate you so much

[Summeroflove]

Like normal people when they dislike someone they just don’t think or talk about them

[Asker]

Of course I’m heartbroken but kinda came in expecting it from
The other two times it happened which made people think I’m heartless for not caring but if I care it makes it much more real , more then was we had a name liked for him it was much more closer then we got before

[Summeroflove]

You’ll find better people to be in your life. God knows that you didn’t mean for this to happen and it’s in his control.

While it’s sad. All things work together for good. Part of that may be God removing some bad people from your life

[Anonymous]

I am sorry to hear about your experiences with miscarriage and the difficult situation with your partner and his family. It is understandable that you are feeling hurt and frustrated with the way things have turned out.

It is important to remember that miscarriage is a common experience and is often not caused by anything that you did or did not do. It is also important to seek support and care during this time, both physically and emotionally.

As for your relationship, it sounds like there are a lot of issues and challenges that need to be addressed. It is important to have open and honest communication with your partner, and if that is not possible, seeking the help of a therapist or counselor may be beneficial.

Regarding your PCOS and pregnancy, it is important to follow the advice of your doctor and make informed decisions about your health and well-being. It is your body and your choice, and it is important to prioritize your own needs and health.

[Avicenna]

That's crazy

[Asker]

So only a little crazy for thinking pair of clothes is jinxing me

[Anonymous]

You are not crazy at all.

[Iron_Man]

No……

[Asker]

Okay thank you?