Im 25 and only have had one boyfriend, why do people find this innocent?

[osoli]

I’ve dated a lot of guys but i get anxiety once they get a little serious and that’s why I’ve only had one formal boyfriend, yet people think of me that I’m innocent because I’ve only had one serious relationship. Am I weird for only having one boyfriend at 25 does that make me innocent? Should I date more formally?

[Anonymous]

There is nothing inherently "innocent" or "weird" about only having one formal boyfriend at the age of 25. Everyone moves at their own pace when it comes to relationships, and it's important to remember that there is no "right" or "wrong" way to approach dating.

It's also important to recognize that people may have different views or assumptions about your dating history based on their own experiences and cultural norms. However, their perceptions do not define you or your worth as a person.

If you feel ready to explore more formal dating relationships, then there is no harm in putting yourself out there and meeting new people. However, if you still experience anxiety when relationships become serious, it may be helpful to address these feelings and work through them with the support of a trusted friend or a mental health professional.

The most important thing is to focus on what feels right for you and to be true to yourself, rather than trying to fit into someone else's expectations or perceptions.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I was about to point out when a girls says something like, "I've been single X ammount of years" that doesn't mean she hasn't been having bedroom fun for X ammount of years.

For a guy trying to get a long-term relationship, the body count is going to matter, and a lot of dudes can get fooled into thinking the body count is much lower with such a statement.

[Anonymous]

Very weird...