Is it a red flag if a woman says she divorced her husband because he is controlling? If so, how is this bad?

[Anonymous]

I shared with a new partner that I left my ex because he was controlling and we grew apart - he was my 1st relationship, how bad was this. I haven't heard from my new partner in 2 days after I shared that. I dont know why.

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Is there a way I can red flag In Trance's answer?

[In_Trance]

It's a red flag that she got married in the first place

[Asker]

You know, there are people wanting to find helpful answers to their problems and dilemmas. If you cannot meaningfully contribute, why get peoples' hopes up by providing wise guy and mean types of answers. That's not cool.

[In_Trance]

You get butthurt for me calling of the obvious which is you being a bad judge of character and rushing into things?
The truth is a mean answer?

[Asker]

then say being a bad judge of character and rushing into things?
you dont need to say smart ass shit obviously i am going through tough shit

[Asker]

this answer does not have the details you listed below

[In_Trance]

There's nothing smart ass about saying the obvious.

[LazerBean]

Being divorced is a red flag.

[Anonymous]

Ya suspect , it may have