Should I be bit annoyed about her comment?

[DieForMeLieToMe]

We've been going out 7 months everything's going great and she says something stupid like "If we are still together at Christmas you're welcome to come over"

Like to me that's doubt, when you "love" someone you don't say crap like that in my opinion what do you think? 🤔

[dynamicyandere]

Nobody is entitled to receive someone else’s love blindly.


It sounds like perhaps she’s been hurt before. She gave her heart to someone too soon in the past and got burned.


I’d be patient with her and not take it personally.


Yeah, she could have worded it better.


But, I believe when people are afraid to love, they’re coming from a place of hurt and fear.


Most often, they’ve had someone mishandle their heart in the past, leaving them more reserved about their vulnerability and feelings.


So, be empathetic. Try to understand her reasons. Try to understand her. And be patient.


That’s my two cents.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Might exhibit a lack of confidence but also shows a desire to see you. You just have to boost up her confidence in you and the relationship as I see it.

[ColHathi]

Sounded kinda thoughtless, yeah.

[In_Trance]

Yeah; have a conversation about it