What should I do? I'm too proud to apologize?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I live together but a week ago we got into a huge argument and now we haven't spoken to each other for 5 long days... It's exhausting cause we're always sitting in the same room but the silence is a killer... What should I do, I don't wanna say sorry or start talking to him which will make him think that the whole thing was my fault where as it was definitely his fault!

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+1 y

Both of us are extremely Stubborn ...

[Terrifical]

Tell him that the silent treatment won't solve anything. You both need to sit down together and not leave until you've resolved your conflict. Tell him that you both need to work towards solving the problem. It'll be hard, but do you love him enough to compromise? Good luck! :)

[Randomzzgirl]

Well just say that you want to get past it and explain why you got angry :) communication honey

[Randomzzgirl]

Ok OK we got it your both stubborn, that doesn't mean you can't have a mature conversation thoigh

[AltTech]

Wait a little longer until the relationship is completely destroyed and beyond salvaging. You'll be alone, sad, and wondering why you never said anything to stop it, but at least you will have won that one argument.

[wanacot]

What was the argument about?

[Asker]

Him checking out girls, staring and acting too friendly to them, not the firt time though

[wanacot]

This issue will not go away or be solved even if you "win" this silent treatment battle. You need to discuss the issue and come to a resolution. If this is a recurring issue and he's not willing to change then perhaps it's time for you to reevaluate how serious this relationship is and whether you'd be willing to live the rest of your life with him acting that way.

[Asker]

The thing is wanacot, he is the sweetest thing to me when we're at home together, he tells me how much he loves me, love to hug and cuddle and tries to make me happy. It's just this thing he has with the girls is making me crazy, he makes me wonder if I'm good enough for him or not

[wanacot]

It's always the same thing... and yes I've seen a lot of questions...

"Except for X he/she is the best person in the world..."

If X is not something you can get over (in this case him checking out other girls etc) then you have a major problem in the relationship. You need to tell him what you just said here and how it makes you feel. He's got to want to change for you. If he's not willing to do that or he doesn't see how this upsets you then I don't think he's all that you've made him to be.