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+1 yEmotionally I make an effort to listen and create a space of intimacy and security so she feels validated and heard and can freely express her feelings. I try to be honest and share how I feel so that she can best connect with me. When I have negative feelings I try to communicate them but it’s tough. When she’s upset I try to stay with her and reassure her vs judging or trying to “fix” the problem. And when we are both happy emotionally I can be a goofball and laugh at myself.
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+1 yI have been through hell, wars and seen some serious shit in my life and been broken emotionally and with hard work, psychology, a lot of psychology and facing fears made things better and emotionally available. So i am a good listener, can provide wormth and emotional connection. I care and i help and reach new levels, together 🤗
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+1 yI’m loving, nurturing, and humorous. I definitely go out of way to show someone I care or to cheer them up. I like to give people hope and can be optimistic unless I’m having a bad day myself. I like to inspire others even if I admire them. I’m good at talking things through but admit that I am not all that great at listening. Still, I try to be patient and hear others out because I’m pretty understanding. But there’s only so many strikes til a mf is O U T. I’m very respectful until I feel disrespected.
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Yes girl, I can be the greatest partner or the worst nightmare
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This why I be warning dudes “lets just end on a good note, you go yo way, and I’ll go mine” cause otherwise, I’ma snap and try to fck sumn up 🤣😂
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Tbh, only Dez #3, Lu, Ty #4, and Mil were crazy enough to try me. See when I go into robot mode, i flip a switch. Not shit matters and I’m gonna throw the lowest of low blows to show you how well I can take out the trash. Im gonna say everything I held back on because I want you to never wanna talk to me again. But two of my exes JT and T was weird. I snapped on them and they got turned on lmao. Like T still be tryna come back. I don’t get it 😂
+1 yI'm a great listener, I will cuddle with you no matter what, I will try to cheer you up and make you laugh. I won't let you get into a funk because I'll make sure that we go out and do something that's fun or go get your favorite meal. I'll give you a massage and more cuddling. I'll make you feel like you are the sexiest person in the world because you would be to me.
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Then I'd smash you good 😂
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Hahahaha
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We both know that massage is gonna lead to smashing 😉
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I can be very attentive and remember little things about my partner. Like his likes, dislikes, his behaviour and how he acts. I use all that information to make my partner feel comfortable around me and make him happy.
I can be very helpful. I will try my best to help and support him in any way I can.
I can be affectionate. I may praise my partner's good qualities and value him for that often.
I can be respectful of my partner's opinions and listen to everything he has to say. Even if I disagree with him, I am willing to fully listen to his opinions.10 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I've been told by my boyfriend that I am very emotionally mature.
He has ADHD which means he is constantly loosing things like keys, phone, etc. He is so tired of looking for things he put down somewhere and then he can't remember where.
Well, the other day was the straw that broke the camel's back. I remained calm, I listened to him, empathized with what he has to go through, coached him with encouraging words, and eventually he calmed down.
He is the greatest coach when I am experiencing one of my cluster headaches (also known as suicide headaches). He gets me my pill and he coaches me through the whole thing. Counts dow how much longer until the Pain stops which is 55 minutes. He keeps giving me boiling hot washcloths to put on my face, which really help.
We are there for each other and nuture each other in time of need.10 ReplyBalance, I know each person has good qualities that they bring to the table.
Respect is big for me and one that truly
embraces the respect of others, has no
problem reciprocating that same respect
back.
Acceptance of truth, in the form of being
open and willing to learn and try new things outside of my comfort zone.
This in no way means to compromise
my faith or sexuality. But rather understanding that things aren't always
suppose to lean towards my favor. I can
and would be willing to learning to appreciate things she likes, such as a
live theatric gospel play, just as she might embrace going to a sporting event of my choice.
Finally, before entering a relationship,
make sure we're compatible. On the same page, have the same view and expectations of what being committed
means and brings.10 Reply- 1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
+1 yI think it's mostly a mix between me being really good at having a good time and the fact that nothing stops me. I don't let bad news overcome my responsibilities, my best moments are under pressure.
I also don't mind having someone tell me about myself. Even if they say something out of anger, I'll genuinely save that thought for later and contemplate over it.
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+1 yEMPATHY!!! Safety, security, stability, being emotionally stable. Being emotionally available. Not being selfish in bed. Not trying to reproduce what most dudes learn from PornHub.
FRIENDSHIP!!!
Now, put that in your pipe and smoke it!!!10 Reply667 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I ignore messages and don't return phone calls, or voicemails.
When we're out I make sure I stare at booties.
Make sure to call you bro, and give you side hugs and kisses on the cheek but only on special occasions.
I forget special occasions and apologize by saying my bad the game was on.
I stay out at night and when you ask where i been I say helping a female co worker with her homework, and extra credit.
Basically Im the perfect boyfriend10 Reply- 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
+1 yI provide stability, compassion, loving, caring, respect, good listener, kind and honest.
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+1 yI thought I was a perfect partner, I was a good one, but I’ve grown enough to know I can be a much better partner for my future boyfriend and I wish I had known things I know now so I could make my ex partner as happy as he deserved to be.
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+1 yI seem like I'm cool and her nerdy and I'm lean looking I may or may not be healthy in other ways ahaha, but I'm looking alright. Lol. Apart from my ongoing hives hopefully they clear up in a year less or more sigh. 🤪
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🫣... Her goodness, I meant typo as "I'm" nerdy sigh.
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yAs a man, I don’t need to offer much emotionally, since we offer everything else, stability, protection, security, etc… if you want emotional support, get a dog or a girl best friend. Since most women don’t offer much in a way that benefits a man, I would say that’s an even trade off.
10 Reply991 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I’m understanding and loving and a good listener etc… most importantly im bunny
12 Reply6.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I'm supportive, tolerant, and uncritical. I don't worry about the small stuff, and at this point it's almost all small stuff.
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+1 yLove support understanding respect and loyalty. What more could a woman want not to mention I'm tall dark and handsome too!!!😉😉😉
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+1 yListening, caring, trying to go out of my way to make them happy, honesty.
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You already know this is who I am if I was with someone
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I never should have told you who I am. Coming back to bite me in the ass
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Maybe in real life. Not on something like this though
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Why do I want to be nice to strangers ill never meet or talk to much more than how's my day?
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Yep. Gonna have to go back to being mean again
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We'll see
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Ummm, love is a strong emotion/word, I like y'all, but I love my family
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1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nothing cause I am not an emotional person I am not a female.
14 ReplyI’m supportive, easy to talk to, loving, kind and trustworthy
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+1 yI help my partner emotionally by sucking her titties... it makes her feel good <3
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+1 yStability, reliability, faithful and supportive.
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+1 yI'm a caring, loyal, good listening partner if I find someone genuine and true I'd make her feel like queen of my heart.
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+1 yI am always there for my wife. I listen. I offer solutions if asked, if not i just listen. My wife always tells me i give the best hugs lol.
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+1 yI’m surprised woman can actually be nice nurturing and caring since anytime I’ve ever experienced female interaction it’s just me being insulted and laughed at
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yBeing loving. Caring. Nonjudgmental. I mean okay if someone did something horrible…. Ehhhh.
But. I need someone whose the same for me10 Reply- 3.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
+1 yNot much, truthfully. I'm too logical. Yet my friends all love me for some reason, so maybe I am just not seeing it in myself.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yGood question
Lots I would say
And another good question
What does my partner offer?
(Not bitter)10 Reply9.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I am a very good listener.
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+1 yI'm attentive, empathetic and supportive.
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+1 yI'm very supportive, caring, available, fun.
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+1 yI don't know how to answer this
10 Reply7.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I am the most loyal person you ever met.
10 Reply6.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I can make girls feel happy and loved 🙂
10 ReplyI can listen for hours
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+1 yComplete honest gentleman 😊
10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. care and trust
10 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nothing?
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Oof.
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+1 ySpicy jokes.
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